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Can i have sex with my SO while NoFap?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Suk, Oct 26, 2019.

  1. Oct 26, 2019 #1
    Suk

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    So as the question states is having sex with your SO count as relapse?
    I'm kinda nervous that i might not get erect cz my brain is desensitized from watching too much porn, it's been 24 days since i quit porn so should i try or tell her no?
     
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  2. Oct 26, 2019 #2
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    Go for it! It's called soft mode reboot...helps you rewire, though some recommend avoiding orgasm if you can!
     
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  3. Oct 26, 2019 #3
    Suk

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    But if i abstain from Orgasming while having sex, won't that cause Blue balls?
     
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  4. Oct 28, 2019 #4
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    Just go for it, do everything you can with your SO, you're here to get into a healthy habit of abstaining from porn not from intimacy with a partner. If she knows about your problem and she understands then it's doesn't matter if you don't get hard, pleasure her, do things for her because as a man who has suffered with the same problem, it's not all about your sexual desires. Go for it, don't hold back, if you don't get hard then don't worry about it because if you stick to your abstenance of porn it will soon come back raging I assure you!
     
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  5. Oct 28, 2019 #5
    Suk

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    Thank you brother! I understand what you said and my SO is really understanding so she said we can wait for 90 days before doing anything :')...I'm going to beat PIED for sure, for her! I'm at 26days no pmo!
     
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  6. Oct 28, 2019 #6
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    The way you're going it'll be back in no time, just stay strong!
     
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  7. Oct 28, 2019 #7
    Suk

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    Thank you so much!
     
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