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HELLO . 23 Y/O NEW HERE.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by ZORROW, Oct 30, 2019.

  1. Oct 30, 2019 #1
    ZORROW

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    Hello Everyone , i am 23 years old and until now , porn and masturbation have controlled my life, i haven't accomplished anything huge till now just because of porn ,
    I have tried many times to quit porn and masturbation but haven't got successful in that.

    This is my first time that i am trying this nofap community , i hope you all will help me.
    Porn really destroys you , i have been addicted to this from last 9 years ,

    I really want to have my control back on my life. I am from India btw , and i am not able to concentrate on my studies at all , i think with the over usage of this thing known as porn i have destroyed my dopamine receptors due to which i am not finding that dopamine level when i study and it makes that thing kind of boring due to which i am not getting ahead in my life and not getting the desired success in my life,

    I have even developed premature ejaculation problem and now i am frightened , i dont want to waste this precious life and i want to regain the control and happiness of my life please help me , i really need your help. :)
     
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  2. Oct 30, 2019 #2
    Sidmaster20

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    You did a right thing joining this forum.

    Everyone is here to improve and you are no different.

    Let me tell you one thing, the most difficult thing about solving a problem is to acknowledge that there is one.
    And you my friend have identified and acknowledged your problem.

    Now follow the reboot process and get control of your life and whenever you feel like watching porn again remind yourself what harm it is doing to you.

    More power to you :)
     
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  3. Oct 30, 2019 #3
    You_ll_succed_for_sure

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    Hello dude, welcome !
     
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  4. Oct 30, 2019 #4
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    Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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  5. Oct 30, 2019 #5
    ZORROW

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    Thankyou So much for your positive responses , thankyou for accepting me , actually i am a single child and i am preparing for my mba entrance, so most of the time of my day i spend here in my house , i have taken online classes for my preparation therefore i wont have to get out of house for studying , and majorly my trigger is at evening to night time . i.e. from 7 pm to 10 pm ,

    and since i got to know that i may have this problem of premature ejaculation , now i am more afraid , is it curable ? like ED is curable if you dont fap but there is no evidence or blog related to Premature Ejaculation ,

    AND can someone tell me what is the rebooting process ? like i know we have to completely stop PMO , for minimum 90 days and after that only you may see the differences and the positive result , but how can we totally avoid nudity and porn for upcoming 90 days ? Since i am addicted to porn as well as masturbation for the past 9 years , for me 90 days look like a huge target , i really want to quit it so what are the steps i can take in order to totally reboot my brain ?
     
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  6. Oct 30, 2019 #6
    GK33

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    Welcome!

    Best of luck on your MBA test and your journey! I hope you find the support you are looking for!

    Ninety days does seem daunting. I, like you, struggle to wrap my head around it. What's been helping me is that instead of focussing on the 90 days, I'm concentrated on today. I'm not sure I can do 90 days, but I can do it today. And after I do today, I will do it tomorrow. Take it one day at a time, and you'll go farther than you ever imagined.

    Best of luck!

    G
     
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  7. May 29, 2020 #7
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    Hi @ZORROW, all the best to you! If you want to join 'The Matrix' challenge click here> 'The Matrix'
     
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