1 year later, 280-300 days without porn and ED is completley gone!

First of all I want to thank this community for the inspiration and several posts of success stories that inspired myself to move forward, this is likley the last post I'll make here but since I acually feel completley cured I might share what I learn along the way so it might inspire others along the way!


How bad was my problem?

as bad as it gets, I couldn't get it up on several occasions and I was so afraid of failing and after aroun 10 years of wathing fucked up porn I couldn't even jerk off manually so yeah, as bad as it gets.

How did I fix it?

My problem was multi faceted, it wasn't only just porn it was more about not having a lot of self belief and just being overly insecure about everything. So I honestly think that I fixed the porn part of my problem around 1-2 months but then my problem was more about being afraid of failing.

But what I did was just facing every single insecurity I had, If I had problem not drinking at dates that's exactly what I did. If I had problems working out around a lot of people, that's exactly what I did. If I felt insecure about going in a line at the mall with cure girls infront of me and in the register that's exactly what I did.

All in all I just started doing shit I was uncomfortable doing and over time those insecurities slowly but surely started to go away!

Lowering your stress levels!

This is way more important then people realise I think. Taking walks, reading books, listening to music literally anything that you can do that lowers your stress levels is a good thing. It's fairly hard to be horny if you over stressed and anxious all the time.

Realise that you are more then just your problems!

I realised that I'm more then just my problems, I'm a fairly laid back, happy and extroverted person and I can define my own victories and I don't have to be hostage to the failures of the past. So you who are reading this, remember that you are more then just your dick working. You are a human worthy of being appreciated for who you are as a person and no matter what happens you'll always have yourself!


How did I overcome being afraid of failure?

By failing, a lot! And also by being open and honest about it to my friends. I talked to my best friends about it and many of them had the same problem. So through sharing this I realise that this is something everyone goes through at some point and then It just slowly went way. Now I'm at the point that I couldn't care less if the dick stopped working!

How is it now?

Better then ever I could even have sex drunk last night and I've acually started to enjoy sex way more. I love foreplay, I like just fooling around and having fun.


So overall, it's been a terrific year and I'm really happy that I failed with that girl last year since it improved my life on so many levels.

Good luck on your journey boys, we're all going to make it!