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18 days and this is what happened

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Nov 5, 2019.

  1. So a girl I know. She's cute. She's friendzoned me. Which is ok by the way. Shes been quiet lately. I messaged her asking how she was. And she said not so great etc. And I said well I can listen if you need to rant. And she said ok thanks.

    Do you know what I did?

    I did FUCK ALL.

    18 days ago I guarantee you I would've kept pressing her and trying to get her to unload and tell me all her issues because I'd feel like hey she's confiding which means she likes me blah blah blah blah.

    No! Not now .if she wants to talk, I put it out there she knows where to reach me. This is a very good step to regaining some form of confidence.
     
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  2. Demodectic

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    If you are doing Hard Mode or Monk Mode than she did you a favor. 3 more days until you hit 90

    I remember your other post about this same chick. Just cross her off your list and move on to the next prospect. Its a numbers game. Focsu your attention a girls that have an interest level IN YOU that is a 7 or higher.

    This girl of whom you speak sounds like she has an interest level in you of 4 or 5. I think you should just write her off. You didnt pass her shit tests. Actually you would be well advised to read books on pick-up-game so that you can maximize your future prospects.

    Check out YouTube Coach Corey Wayne. His free videos are very good and will point out where you went wrong with this latest chick.
     
  3. Don't think im familiar with either of those two. Although I would like to keep away from women for a bit lol
     
  4. ZenAF

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    I just youtube searched Coach Corey Wayne and wtf the guy got a million videos. Did you watch them all or what?

    My advice to you is to not get into all that pick-up artist stuff in the first place. Because you will be way too focused on doing everything by the book. You'll always try to interpret what she's doing, making up strategies to make her more attracted to you and you ultimately turn yourself into a manipulative person. That shit backfires, because nothing is more unattractive than fake.
    "Oh you're not actually a confident guy who doesn't need my attention right now, actually you're insecure as fuck and you're craving my attention but you play it cool because Coach Wayne told you so. Loser."

    I don't mean don't check your behavior, but be aware the pick-up market is gigantic because the insecurity in guys is gigantic and guys like Coach Wayne exploit that full on. They fill you up with truck loads of information and you start to become anxious about following his rules all the time instead of enjoying your relationship and more importantly, developing your own instinct on how to treat women.
     
    Last edited: Nov 6, 2019
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  5. Im actually pretty decent with women. I would say above average for sure. I used to meet alot of women out at bars and did well. Now that I've decided to refrain from drinks it is a little tougher.
    And you'll laugh the girl I was talking about is a different one I'm actually ok with this one being a friend. We have alot in common and some distance between us
     

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