Asian Massage Parlors...

Think of it this way if you stopped now by this time next year you will have an extra $6,000 in your bank account

 

So, can you just get an actual massage in those places or is just a censored brothel?

 

The usual thing is a one hour massage all over ending in a sensual massage which becomes a penis massage. Many of these places have a table shower at the beginning which can get kinda sexy too. Yes you do get a real massage. It doesn't take an hour to get jacked off.

 

Knowledge or experience?

 

So it is a diet brothel.

 

I'm probably very lucky I live in a small town with no Asian massage parlors
Good Lord it'd just be another thing I'd have to fight, lol

 

Diet Brothel
Brothel Light
Brothel Zero
I Can’t Believe it’s not Brothel
Love these word games!

On a serious note though, @CJ22, don’t go in there. Stop lying to yourself. Stop making excuses for behavior that you know to be wrong.

 

Experience - About 20 visits over 4 years, but I'm not doing it anymore.

 

Good to hear that you stopped. Stay strong brother.

 

I have been down this path with massage parlors. I figured it was nothing more than "live porn". But, it is a dark path. While you may be searching to satisfy your real urge for a real woman, you intend sacrifice yourself to a false sense of relationship, damaging your ability to have that real connection, costing you more money than you realize, and exposing yourself to disease risk no mater how safe you are. My advise, consider Massage Parlors as just another form of porn and give it up.

 

If nothing else works, think of how miserable the women are who work there and how many times a day they have to do it. That should help you to stop visiting them so you don't make their lives more miserable. More often than not those women are forced into that kind of work and they don't want to give you happy endings regardless of how much you pay them. Also, like Digger2 said, disease and STD risks are huge with places like that and one wrong move could potentially ruin your life way more than PMO ever did. I hope these messages help you stop going. Good luck.

 

Place yourself in the shoes of these masseuses. Would you be happy and satisfied with your life if you were in their shoes? If not, then I think you should break away from this behavior. Any kind of customer service where when roles get reversed and you feel humiliated and dehumanized, is not something a sensible person should encourage and engage in.

 

Such a high percentage of these wharehoused women were trafficked into the situation, many originally when underage, that it is impossible to rationalize going there and contributing to the business model. Before you go there think of your own daughter, little sister, niece or whatever, if she were brought up in desperate economic circumstances and led to that life. Don’t contribute and feed this cycle.

 

Good things to point out. I wold never publicly humiliate or dehumanize a woman, and I would be so angry at anyone who did that to my daughters. Yet in my secret private life id that very thing when I go to a massage parlor. What kind of a man am I? one that is, at least now, working on my problem.

 

And THAT is good. You've made a good decision by being here. Go make more good decisions.

One day at a time is how we all succeed.

 

Been there and it is highly addictive and expensive.

 

Thanks for all the thoughts here folks... I was on the verge of deciding to go to one tomorrow, I clicked on this post in hopes to be swayed away... I'm going to call a normal massage parlor and make an apt for tomorrow right now!

 

Good choice. You will be glad you ran.

 

Smart move you dont want to end up on the 6pm local news caught up in a police raid of the place