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Insecurities about my penis please give me your opinion

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by HardWorkOnly, Nov 9, 2019.

  1. HardWorkOnly

    HardWorkOnly Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys, i have so many years insecurities about my penis apearence,i dont care about how big is my penis(i think i have a really good size) but i care about the cosmetic look for example i have some big hair pores on my scrotum,they are very visible and i think it looks bad,and it can turn off a girl,plus i have varicocele veins and at times when the penis is flacid i get two bumps up of my right testicle,i went to the doctor and they said that im ok ,but im really unconfortable about the look of my penis,im a virgin too , so my short question is do girls really care about these imperfections,like big hair pores or a bump on my ball sack(thank god it appears only when the penis is flacid and not always),thanks for your time,im waiting for your answers
     
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  2. tbird

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    If you don't believe the doc, then see another doc. If they say it's ok, then so be it. The right girl won't mind it a bit.
     
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  3. Youve got nothing to worry about man. The big majority of women dont care what your penis looks like. Most women think penises are ugly in general anyway. And the majority of women have some cosmetic flaws as well that they are also self concious about. When I was young like you i was also worried about my penis. I thought it was small, due to seeing all the unrealistic big ones on porn. Turns out my penis is average and ive never once had a single complaint on it.
    So take it from someone with experience; Women care more about the man attached to the penis than the penis itself.
     
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  4. HardWorkOnly

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    Thanks guys i really appreciate your answers , sometimes i get really depressed about my penis
     
  5. Homelander

    Homelander Fapstronaut

    I think you looked at too many porn videos and now think your penis is weird. Your penis fine. Just make sure its clean and well groomed and chicks will love it!

    I know more women are feeling bad about their vagina. For example big lips are causing many girls to feel ashamed whilst most men dont care about nice big lips. I love big floppy lips i can suck on.
     
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  6. I don't think you should worry about it. I'm sure you're thinking about it more than any girl ever would. :)
     
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  7. HardWorkOnly

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    yes i have seen too many porn videos that might be a problem,but i always think that other guys dont experience thing like this
     
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  8. fredisthebes

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    Sounds like it is fine. Genitalia in general aren't the best looking, there's a reason they call it 'bumping uglies'. Don't get tempted by plastic surgery, a lot of women who have had cosmetic genital surgery have ended up with problems (making sex painful, etc), and I would guess that all women would prefer a funny looking penis to one that is covered in scars. There is a lot more variety in the real world than in P videos, and that is fine.

    Real world sex doesn't happen under the harsh glow of studio lighting, but in the dark and softly lit by a table lamp or some candles.
     

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