M without P

Dont M bro, it will effect you negatively. To fight the urges take a cold shower or take walk. Do some push ups or just meditate and take deep breaths

 

Np, i think its hard because thats the price we gotta pay to for the years of indulgence. We just gotta pull through. Just dont pmo even if u wont sleep all night. Just keep going through the blizzard. It will stop after some time

 

hold tight

 

Fuck porn my dude. Fuck masturbation without porn. It’s how your brain gets a dopamine rush. It’s similar to using drugs/ smoking cigarettes in a way. Cut off all the PMO. It’s like quitting an addiction. Good luck on the journey bro.

 

Try 90 days without pmo and then you can try regular masturbation.

 

Dont edge or try masturbing without an ejeculation. It will set back your progress. In my case I went "too far" and ended up cumming. But the main reason its not wise is because we are trying to reboot and that means to avoid the dopamine rushes but edging activates the dopamine and so does steeping your mind in sexual thoughts or fantasizing while in bed. Just redirect your thoughts to something else.

During your reboot just DONT think about sex at all if possible. This is an exercise in mental mastery. Think of your mind as a horse and that YOU are the rider. Dont allow the horse to gallop off wherever it wants to because you have the reigns in your hands to redirect the horse.

 

I ended up doing MO in several of my streaks, arguing that I'd just be abstinent from porn. Every time I ended up with PMO a few days after MO. Don't do it man! Even if you MO it does nothing good for you.

 

I think it makes people fall back into P, but if you think you can handel it, I don't think just MO is horrible

 

I'm in the same boat. Just think to yourself, if you could only have ONE of the two for the rest of your life, would you rather ejaculate on napkins or inside vaginas? You know what you want so get it!

 

trust me bro, dont m, the only end if you do it is regret
just wait for your wife. M has no intimacy

 

Let me tell you, I'm at the end of Day 8 of PIV-only ejaculation. Just this short time I'm viewing my wife and other women the way I'm supposed to. Instead of lusting after porn actors, I want the real deal. When it does happen, it'll be so great. It's what we're built for, literally.

 

Yep. I was tricking myself into thinking Once a week I'll jack off, well that was fine until it wasn't. (It's worked for me in the past but that quickly spiraled downwards for some reason) Long story short it didn't work, lead me right back to f*cking porn

Uhhhhh. I need a reboot and am doing Hard mode until I have a Wet Dream.

Then we will see what happens. I'm 5 days going on 6 now, hopefully this wet dream happens soon because I'm pretty miserable, lol

 

Yes this is a good post.

I know in my experience at first it is harder but once you commit to it its is actually easier to do this without M.

The challenge is in your own mind, if you RESOLVE to let go of the idea, it will be easy.

but until you get to that level of resolution it will be harsh as fuck.

but this is what is fun about it - we are challenging ourselves to become our most disciplined awesome self, and every day is a battle and we should face it like a warrior.

Falling in love with the temptations urges and feeling depressed that we cant masturbate.