How to become an incel, the complete guide.

I agree with most but not sure about these:

It depends what you mean by aggressive songs. I don't think it's wrong to listen to heavy metal per se. Sometimes an aggressive song can release frustration. Frustration shouldn't stay in because it can eat you up. I don't think it's good to pretend you're not frustrated when you are.

I think regarding socialising it's important to remember some people are introverts so for some people socialising can be draining. I'm an introvert and for years I went around beating myself up for not enjoying socialisation. Now I'm more accepting of myself and don't feel bad for not being as sociable as some people. I'm not saying I don't socialise at all but I don't have to socialise to make people happy.

I would also add masturbation in moderation is ok. It's when you're addicted to it, that's when there's a problem.

 

Bro u are a genius. Straight up.

 

I might add that those suicides could also be serial murders first and then suicide.

 

1) Masturbate everyday - Doing so will drain you of any energy, during my high school years I always wondered why girls weren't that much attracted to me, neither were people cheerful around me.

Sound. Imagine all the the other things a person could be doing to improve ones self.

2) Listen To Aggressive Songs - It will trigger any sort of frustration or aggression you would be having.

What comes to my mind are songs about how the whole world is out to get you. Nonsense.

3) Devoid Yourself of Social (Not Facebook, Insta) Life - Doing so will hinder your creativity and add to the depleted energy levels.

Find that healthy balance of face to face interaction.

4) Waste too much time on the internet, especially watching porn - Your mind will be high when you get an orgasm, but as soon as you're not, you will become an aggressive freak that no one will like.

Always along because one interacts with none other than themselves.

5) Get a stagnant mindset - Think that you can't be creative ever, that you cannot ever grow and that other people will always blame you for everything, when you binge fap you become everyone's punching bag, I'm saying this because I've experienced this, since you have no energy to say anything you'll be fucked by words of others, again left foresaken.

People are busy living their own lives. There are better things to do than whine at them for doing so.

6) Think that no girl will ever like you - The biggest mistake you can make is to ruminate about future, we all do it to some extent, this feeling will kick in naturally if you're binge fapping, some girls might exchange looks but forget about having a girlfriend if you're binge fapping.

What lady in in her right mind would want to be with a guy who believes she'd never like him?

7) Assuming Negative Consequences no matter if there's nothing to worry about.

Looking at the negative isn't a bad thing. Solely viewing it is.

8) Craving sex like it's elixir, not being content.
Sex is not elixir, it won't make you immortal, fapping removes any beauty present within life, you'll think your life is shit again and again to the point of depression and suicide.

Once the sex stops the world comes crashing down. Learn to love life without sex. Enjoy it when it happens.

9) Being a liability, not having any goals
If you're binge fapping your mind won't work then you probably won't have any goals or work to do, if you're having a job currently, you'll be fired and I guarantee it.

Yeah, it's too easy to wander in circles.

10) Join The Incel Community -
Join the ultimate community of ungrateful people (akin to ungrateful thots), who think everything in their life is pure shit.

I'll take word that these communities exist.

 

Glad you've typed this out and put some thought into it. Yes, these are many symptoms of incels. I would say that some follow naturally from the others. For example, if you take just one of those things - let's say social isolation (#3) - then it is very likely that they will develop #1, #4, #5, #9, and #10 as a result. It's a vicious downwards spiral. The number one thing I would instruct incels to do would be to cut our their addictions, and not just porn. ALL of them. And then they would have no choice but to improve themselves.

 

While I definitely wouldn't call myself an incel, this line resonates with me. Forum usage, gaming, anime binging, and youtube. Since I've overused them as coping mechanisms I find it increasingly necessary to cut them out. Finding something to replace these activities can be difficult. It's a mindset shift. Someday things like gaming may return, though not today.