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Am I normal?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Deleted Account, Nov 16, 2019.

  1. Hello guys, I really need your opinion about this because I'm kinda confused
    So after a long struggle I've been able to completely cut off porn for some time,I haven't been that addicted and I never watched anything rather than regular straight porn
    Been doing good,studying hard,working out and enjoying my time with friends inside and outside university
    The problem is:I just don't feel sexually attracted to girls,even though I'm feeling absoulutely good in all aspects
    Matter of fact,I live in a "kinda" conservative country,and even though there's a lot of beautiful attractive girls,they don't wear that tight or revealing clothes espically at university
    I want to know what are the standards that should make a healthy male aroused?I know this sounds stupid,but after years of masturbating and porn I just don't know what's normal anymore
    Something to note is that I'm a guy who loves everything related to philosophy,literature,movies and music and all,and I feel like I can't be attracted to a girl physically unless she shows some intelligence and understanding of the things I care about
    So,what do you think about this?is this normal in my case?is it my personality? or am I flatlining whithout knowing that?
    I know it isn't important, but I've been very confused about it lately
    Any thought is appreciated
     
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  2. DerSchütze

    DerSchütze Fapstronaut

    No, most guys just like good looking girls with nice bodies, for me personally a good looking face without makeup really getS me going.
     
    Last edited: Nov 16, 2019
  3. Thanks for responding , I guess I need more time with nofap to get back to normal
    Even though I feel like I'm doing something wrong, I feel like my sexual energy is blocked,it's there but I can't connect with it, I need to figure this shit out and deal with it
     
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  4. DerSchütze

    DerSchütze Fapstronaut

    You shouldn't stress about it, nothing wrong with having preferences.
     
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  5. ANewFocus

    ANewFocus Fapstronaut

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    Don’t worry about it. Stay away from PMO and over time, your truth will be revealed, whatever it is.
     
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