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Losing a partner due to porn

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by kh2013, Nov 17, 2019.

Is porn affecting your relationship?

  1. Yes

    6 vote(s)
    85.7%

  2. No

    1 vote(s)
    14.3%

  3. Currently not in a relationship

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
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  1. Nov 17, 2019 #1
    kh2013

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    Hello all im fairly new here but I just came to vent a little bit .Back in july i was having problems with porn and I got complacent in my relationship and thought regardless she wouldnt leave me.Well fast forward to a week and a half ago and my relationship ended because of it.Once she packed all of her stuff and left sadly that's when it clicked with me how bad I was doing plus my negative mindset wasnt helping.I have been having a problem with it ever since I was a teenager (being an introvert and all).Porn isn't worth it,because once you have someone who's always there for you and you lose them,well that hurts more than words can say and will make you disgusted by porn.
     
    Last edited: Nov 17, 2019
    kh2013, Nov 17, 2019
    kh2013, Nov 17, 2019
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  2. Nov 19, 2019 #2
    Tobit80

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    Yes I can say it has affected my relationship.
    We are no longer together.
    I'm trying to be a better person now.
     
    Tobit80, Nov 19, 2019
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  3. Nov 22, 2019 #3
    Joe1023

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    Well porn has absolutely affected my marriage, but I'm in recovery now and doing okay with it. My wife and I are happy now, for the most part. I know that she deals internally with a lot of triggers and betrayal trauma, but like I say, for the most part, we're good. So it does affect us still, and it always will in a way, but since I'm no longer "acting out" as they say, its not a daily thing where she has zero trust and I'm wondering if she knows about my porn use and what she'll do about it.
     
    Joe1023, Nov 22, 2019
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