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Never ending flatline PLEASE HELP

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Thisistough111, Nov 20, 2019.

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  1. Thisistough111

    Thisistough111 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys.

    I just made this account because I dont know how to help myself. Im in flatline since I started my journey in May 2019. Its been 6 months and I am still in flatline, I have zero libido, dead dick, weak morning erections, etc. I did not watch porn since May, did not masturbate by myself, nothing. I had few orgasms with my gf, but only handjobs and no sex. How do I end this hell named flatline? Its affecting my life I am so depressed because of it. I just want to have normal sex life with my gf. Can you give me some tips how can I come closer to my final goal? I tried working out, cold showers, etc. Nothing is helping me. Thank you very much for any hep!
     
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  2. Homelander

    Homelander Fapstronaut

    First you have to be pat yourself on the back for abstaining to porn for so long. Keep that streak up no matter what.
    Regarding, your flatline its going to be difficult for us to give you advise since we don't know much about situation and lifestyle.

    I have a few questions :

    1. Do you have morning erections and do you log how often you have them in a week?

    2. Did you try karezza with your girlfriend?

    3. Did you visit a urologist / specialist?

    4. how often a week do you do cardio and fitness?

    5. how much crap food(sugar,junk food, cola,candy, chips, etc) do you eat in a week?

    6. How often do you have oral and manual sex with your girlfriend?

    7. How stressful (high cortisol) is your life at this moment?

    8. Do you have close people you can talk to about this?

    9. do you sleep at least 8 hours a day?
     
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  3. Thisistough111

    Thisistough111 New Fapstronaut

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    1. Yes I have them but quite weak. Everyday I think
    2. Yes I did try it.
    3. Yes and I had my testosterone level checked. Doctor said it is very good so that is not a problem.
    4. 2 times a week.
    5. No soda. No sweets. Fast food like once a week.
    6. I try to minimize it as much as possible. Lets say once every 2 weeks.
    7. College is stressing me out.
    8. Yes I talk a lot about it with my gf she is very supportive.
    9. Usually around 7 hours.
     
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  4. Homelander

    Homelander Fapstronaut

    Well, your lifestyle seems fine.
    I guess you just have ride it out and wait for your mind to slowely heal.

    I'm also stuck in a flatline right now and having a date this week is not helping at all. But i have set our expectations ti low bye telling her we are only going to do cuddling, kissing and oral sex.
     
  5. Ezpz

    Ezpz Fapstronaut

    Hey buddy, my advice would be to stick with it. Long flatlines are tough but they will surely end eventually. There are a lot of other rebooters that have gone through long flatlines, including myself. The best thing you could do to would be to try and not worry about it too much and take each day as it comes.

    Hang in there bro, you never know how close you may be to success ;)
     

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