Fapped my feelings away

Forget about hocd. Think 3 times pmo sessions are ok than 6 times. If you like that girl and you and her meet very often also she is interested in you. Just stay positive and talk with her.

 

If you have a porn problem a relationship wont fix it. You're going to bring the porn problem into the relationship and its going to mess up everything. I reccomend you get yourself clean for 90 days and then think about a relationship when you've gained control. Many others thought a relationship would fix the issue but it hasnt.

 

Go and enjoy that date, that will be the right thing, don't give it to much mind, that's our problem obsessive-compulsive behavior. Don't let the sickness controls you once again in a different way. Bless you

 

That feeling when you "fall in love" and butterflies in yout stomach with someone is simply physical attraction. If you do not feel it right now doesn't mean that you should forget or discard that girl. You know that.

Go on that date with her, talk to her, learn about her from her own words. Love is something that will grow on you with time, those feelings of attraction you had are temporary, they never last forever, you need to learn to understand them.

Maybe... just maybe you discover that she is not for you, but you don't know that, you have to give "you and her" a chance, to be friends first, and maybe something more later. Remember that you are addicted to PMO because it saves you all these "trouble", but that's false, it deprives you from the real experiences and social skills you develop as a normal human being.

Go on that date champ! Enjoy the day with her, forget about your "attraction" and think about her as a person.

 

My college years could be defined by girl showing interest in me, fapping to avoid uncomfortable emotions about risk, rejection, and intimacy, and then having no interest in her by the time we went out.

15 years later I’m happily married. I still have regrets and remorse about the times I led women on in this way and the failed connections.

Don’t be me.

 

That’s why they call it post nut clarity. You have dulled yourself out, and nullified your sex drive. That drive you felt is meant to push you to women, but instead when you use it to pmo, it’s like you extinguish all your drive not just for women but for life, and you are left empty.

Now she won’t be as attracted to you come saturday. you won’t bring that oomph and masculinity and confidence

It’s a bad idea to relapse right before a date if you’re wanting to have good chemistry

 

Don't watch faggot porn it's gonna ruin your life you will become fag yourself