Saw Tinder and now im horny....

Brother, think about the progress you’ve made! Also think about how happy you’ll be when you overcome these urges. But also think about how disappointed you’ll be in yourself if you give in.


If she posts the type of pictures that would make you feel so sexually urged then maybe she isn’t the best girl in the first place y’know?

 

Bro, see your quote above. I think you already know that you should stop talking to her. I've never used Tinder but have fallen into the same trap you're in by browsing dating sites. It's really no different then browsing those dark art pics! The only difference is your brain rationalizes that its ok. But look at you, you're triggered and primed to fall. Don't listen to your brain right now. It's going to say you need to be social and meeting a girl will take you away from PMO. But I'm guessing you will spend all your time browsing endless profile pictures and that's about it. It stimulates your addicted circuitry just the same. Soon enough you'll be back to PMO.

Great job for bringing this to the forum. We all need to stick together. Keep fighting and don't be afraid to keep reaching out!

 

delete tinder the fat women will be able to wait lol.

 

So now you know what triggers you. Write it on the list of triggers/causes of urges and now you're step closer to winning. Tinder is for boys.

 

look man, you should escape as fast as you can, but you want to be sure if hes into something with you. Ask directly: "we fuck?" if she says no you can leave and continue reboot, if yes you will have sex with her. either of these two ways you wont be relapsing more by looking at her and thinking about her. You want to do this as fast as it is possible

 

Imagine going to have sex with the woman and then you can't get it up because you've watched so much porn. This should motivate you. Oh and continue talking to her and try to actually have sex with her instead of fantasizing about her.

 

I don't want you to look at me while I'm shedding skin,
I can't afford for you to see what's inside me.
I'd rather shoot myself than have you watch me

 

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