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Escalation , improved hard on quality

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Nov 22, 2019.

  1. so I think ive fucked myself up a bit .

    I've watched a lot of porn over the years , and have pretty much experimented with everything , in the realm of normal straight porn, except fetishes , just the normal stuff , I watched cam girls aswell. It was only over the years when I started to develop pied and issues with arousal and libido ,
    And I thought I'd killed my dick or a medication had damaged me which it had tons degree

    When I abstained from porn for a while hard ons arousal etc improved a lot, but not what it used to be , I think I'd watched so much over the years it wasn't really doing what it used to. I started to see it as the industry it is and cams are about making money ,

    Long story short , I've had pied for a while , and recently I started getting into a fetish , sometimes it does it for me other times not at all, long story short hard on quality depending on the material is pretty much up and running
    So this is worrying, worrying because , I had this level of hard on quality for well over a decade and more watching normal
    porn, until it no longer really didn't the same , bare in mind I've never done NoFap .

    Is this a clear sign of escalation porn induced ed , will abstaining really fix this and resensitise my brain, i find porn staged and the more you watch over the years the less effect it seems to have.

    It's really weird that for many years I couldn't get enough of it and hard in quality was absolutely in point , then it was as if I became semi impotent , but festish porn can sometimes being that quality back , I understand the fetish for wat it is and it's not something I'm really into in real life. But my mind seems to have warped it into something that's new and novel and bang up and running again

    I'm hoping NoFap will resfresh my brain a bit . Id really like to return to my natural tastes , and be able to watch porn from time to time and it have the level of effect it uses to have without resorting to something far beyond the pale .
     
  2. Porn is the enemy, it has turned us into slaves to our sexual fantasies. I have no say on pied, but many people who have it are cured when they stop watching porn and complete their reboot process. Nofap will help you master your sexual energy. Also, it is not a good idea to watch porn ever, as you mentioned that you want to watch it "from time to time". If you watch it once, you will probably watch it again, and you will relapse. But don't get discouraged if you relapse, this is how you learn and grow. Since you are new here, check out these resources for assistance and knowledge:
    1)https://www.yourbrainonporn.com
    2) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6gyVlwXwtqkn4KLjx3nDHg
    3) https://www.amazon.com/Breaking-Cycle-Yourself-Addiction-Obsession/dp/1608820831
    4) find an accountability partner if you haven't already done so; there is a forum for that on this site
    I wish you the best through this process!
     

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