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Do I really want it?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Nov 23, 2019.

  1. I somehow feel that I don't really want to abstain from porn. Sure, this might be my brain talking me into it. But still, my motivation seems to be too little to continue...
     
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  2. Wait and think a Little.. I don't know your actual situation, but:

    - Porno is a fake sex - sex is exactly the opposite of Porno!
    - You're living a lie if you will still in porno
    - Your mind will be always centred on Porno, and your relations won't be natural
    - You will always feel uncomfortable

    Are you sure you don't want to quit it?
     
  3. blunt.ever

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    All is beautiful, until you will reach PIED.
     
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  4. TheLightOne

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    U have anything better to do?
     
  5. Fenix Rising

    Fenix Rising Fapstronaut

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    Then you'll fail. It's as simple as that. You've gotta convince yourself that your future depends on it and believe it. Even then it's a struggle to get past early recovery (3-4 months).
     
  6. This. When I discovered I had PIED was too late.
     
  7. blunt.ever

    blunt.ever Fapstronaut

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    Me too... very sad. But you resolved your problem?
     
  8. I started has been a week, I'm at day 8. I'm studying everything that I can to speed up the process.
     
  9. There are several questions to be made:

    - do you think that porn has become a source for problems and setbacks in your life?

    - do you think you might be addicted to it?

    If the answer is no, I don't think to have any real reason to abstain, just like someone who is NOT an alcoholic doesn't have a reason to drink a beer or two once in a while.
     

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