Over 2 years of NoFap that completely changed my life!

Hello, Namaste, Salam and Howdy to all my fellow comrades. I've been a lurker on NoFap for a good two years now; I thought I needed to finally make a post and it makes me the happiest person on the planet to reveal to you that I've done NoFap for over TWO WHOLE YEARS now and that it is the best decision I have EVER made in my life. (skip to 5th paragraph for benefits)

Before I reveal to you all the unbelievable benefits I have gained, let me give you a little bit of a backstory, I promise I won't make it too long. I started masturbating at age 12 and hated it from day 1. Before I even knew all the problems that arose because of masturbation, I HATED IT. It just felt disgusting and immoral. However, being a horny kid with free access to the internet and the world of porn, it was impossible for me to quit. I masturbated to porn for the next 5 years of my life EVERY SINGLE DAY, and sometimes even 2-3 times a day. Whenever I hadn't masturbated for a couple of days, I felt so good about myself. However, before I knew it, I would get sucked back into the cycle of pleasing myself. By the time I was 17 years old, I was depressed as shit and hated everything about myself because of masturbation. My penis wouldn't get hard and I'd find myself touching myself to O while I was flaccid.

Let me tell you how badly PMO had affected my life. Despite being a good student, my grades were terrible, I could see no future for myself. I had SEVERE knee and heel pains that would not go despite me taking all types of medicinal care I could; I took supplements, wore heel pads under my shoes, got X rays and what else not but my pains just wouldn't go. I used to play cricket which I was certain I could take up professionally however I had to let that go because of depression, anxiety and tiredness. I had to quit my absolute, most thing about life, I had to give up my dream of playing cricket professionally.

Throughout my life, I had been one of those people who were popular among girls, had great confidence around people, excelled in sports and had a lot of friends however I could slowly see myself turning into this loser who had gained weight on his face and body, was turning into a social outcast, afraid of people with no real friends or purpose. However, in 2018 October I stopped masturbating when I got into a relationship with this girl. I don't know how it happened but one day I realised I hadn't masturbated because of being busy for a while and I decided to take it up. Soon afterwards, I discovered NoFap which further encouraged me to take up this journey which I had been trying to do for so long. I had made promises to myself throughout my teenage years that I would stop but I couldn't however now I was finally doing it.

The benefits I experienced over the last 2 years have been unbelievable:

1) Not to show off but I'm not planning on lying here so; it was never hard for me to get girls, I had always been able to flirt because I was confident and I had been called good looking by a lot of girls. HOWEVER, I cannot begin to explain to you how easy it got for me to get girls after I did NoFap. I don't know what caused it but SOMETHING did and I get girls really easily now. I had a really bad break up a few months ago where I was depressed as shit cause my Ex cheated on me and I lost a shit ton of weight. I would have easily spiraled back into the life of PMO however OWING TO NoFap, it had become so easy for me to get girls and sex that I was easily distracted by attention from other girls which prevented me from getting back into PMO.

2) My grades in EXTREMELY important exams that decide my fate for University (and possibly life) suddenly went from EEE (worst possible passing grade) to AAB (which has now helped me get admission into multiple TOP 50 universities in the WORLD). I worked hard and was more smart the second time HOWEVER a lot of credit goes to NoFap for that as I was now motivated, I didn't have brain fog and wasn't wasting my time.

3) I go to the gym every single day and I lifting weight and enjoying the process of my body looking good and better every new day. Even the girls give you more attention. I never had the energy to go to the gym before. Always fatigued and tired.

4) I have no pains in parts of my body anymore. SUDDENLY. As soon as I stopped PMO. You don't understand how dangerous PMO is for your body.

5) I have the time to take up so many hobbies now, like playing the guitar, reading, watching sports, PLAYING sport, getting things done, spending time with my parents, shooting, going on adventures with my friends.

6) Lets just say that making love with your GF, wife, SO, FwB or WHOEVER it is, is going to become really good. Your man parts will certainly feel like they've increased in size. You will be harder than ever. You will get great morning wood. You will get great wet dreams. You will last long. You will have a bloody good time.

7) There are so many more benefits but this is the most important one; I have self belief now. I know I can do anything if I want to. I know I've defeated the worst demon of my life and I cannot be prouder of myself. I have so much self respect and self esteem now that it shoots through the roof, you can see it on my face, in my body language, in my words - people find that attractive.

You guys can do this and you really NEED to do it. Every time you fail, you have more experience to defeat the beast this time. I'm sure all you blokes can. Aaaaand trust me, 2 years +, I still get urges, whether I've made love just yesterday or not in 2 months, I still have urges - sometimes I get close, but I've come to far to let it go to waste.

Feel free to ask me any questions, or even just to talk to me. I gotchu homies.

 

No homie. I don't think hard mode is necessary unless you really, rgally need it. For example, if you were into deep shit like fandom and all of that, then you may require a complete detox.

I however just started to enjoy my normal, porn free life.

 

Thanks homie. I wish the same to you!

By the way, congratulations! You have a pretty decent streak yourself. Keep it up! Talk to me if yiu ever wish

 

You're welcome, Sachin. Aapki baari hai ab!

 

Thank you, my friend. It seems longer than it really is. Trust me, you can get there. From what I've learned, this is a mountain that is hard to climb in the beginning, it starts getting easy afterwards. Eventually, the NoFap lifestyle just becomes routine. That being said, avalanches on this ascend keep coming from time to time in the form of urges, trying to bring me down! Need to keep strong. I've won the battle, maybe even the war but this is not IT. I need to keep working to succeed. Urges still come from time to time, I'm just stronger now.

Next milestone? Well, there isn't any really with regards PMO. There's just the aim that I carry on NoFap until the day I die so I can live my life to the fullest and MORE!

 

No, bro. No stints of M whatsoever. I've been over 2 years PM free thankfully, as should everyone here aim to be. My goal is to be PM free for LIFE. Any O caused by self stimulation is wrong, no matter what stage you are at.

I've had sex often-ish with multiple partners through these 2 years and at one point my Ex GF was in London at one point and we had to do long-distance for a few months, so obviously there was no sex. I O'd a couple of times on video call with her but I regretted it instantly and decided to never do that again EITHER.