It is great to read your posts. You talk about life changes which is what we are all here for. A steak is good and it is an achievement. And it is even better when life changes too. Congrats on your new life I am inspired to continue!
Excellent. Your leadership has helped many Spartans change their lives. We are all stronger because of your commitment to Sparta! And I agree. My senses have sharpened. I even spend time just listening to ambient sounds like they are some new discovery. Even mundane ones like footsteps or the sound of floors creaking. It’s a new life. I owe a great deal to you. Thank you.
Check in Day 65 Hello Spartans, Many lessons today. First, I was very open and spoke with many people today and it felt very good. It also gave me a kind of magnetism. I noticed as people would come back to me a second time to be around me. Fascinating. Second, how tricky my mind can be. And how serious habits can be. Today I have realized that over the last few days I have had several thoughts about going back to Instagram to ‘build my network’ when in fact this is just another attempt by my subconscious mind to get me closer to that rush. That fix. Those photos. Those girls. And then of course to fap. It is so clear to me that we are all doing an amazing thing here. We are reprogramming our minds and reshaping our lives. It is so important to be vigilant and to really pay attention on this journey. Meditate. Journal. Read forum posts. Keep the discussion alive. I have seen so many posts where someone says they don’t know what happened. They just went into pmo mode. They were triggered. I know this well. It has happened many times to me in the past and if I am not careful it will happen again. My life is more under my control. I have more freedom. I have more energy for life. People are drawn to me. So much has changed. Thank you all. Stay Strong Spartans!
Thx buddy, I'm trying my best (?) hahaha. Well, you remembered me about something and maybe this could help another internaut. What works for me too much to get in bed with girls is not to try anything. Not to effort for it. And more importantly, that she can't figure out what are you thinking, feeling, or planning. I mean, the lead idea is that the girl doesn't aware at all what is happening with you. Why? Cause they love mistery, they really enjoy find out things so help her with that, give her something different and hard to chew, and then give her a few clues in order to chew it easier. When I say chew I'm talking about all idea processing. In summary, lead her for an emotional roller coaster. And the best way to do it is not to try anything, any move, cause usually when you do it girls could look at you so desperate. We need to learn something, and is that girls and boys have different channels of communication. We are more visual, they are more auditive. So a decline is the main answer from them because usually we don't know at all how to communicate with them. When you think in other stuff as your own projects, or whatever, ironically, you are more in real and honest interaction with girls, instead of thinking constantly to fuck with them. Well, off course this is longer but I invite you to try it and if you want to talk more about it just ask me anything, we can chat or whatever. And yes bro, I feel a little anxiety specially because eventually you start feeling something renew, so.... adding the confidence, the near interaction, the experience, what we shared as a couple.. well it's hard to stand it because of the emotions. But that's another story, tomorrow I can tell you Day 12
Checking in day 30 There's a long way to go but finally , i reached a month mark. Thank you ,everyone : )
Hello guys To be honest I don't know what to do anymore. Porn Addiction has totally ruined my life. I'm just 19 but I have low libido and low energy levels. I'm Also a bit overweight. I barely think of dating and I feel like I'm missing out on life. I joined NoFap about a month ago and I have barely made any progress. My longest streak is 5 days only. I feel awful about myself. I want a new life, a life where I work out instead of fapping, a life where I take a girl out instead of spending hours looking at naked women. Somebody..... Please advise me on what to do. I'm going to start over from day zero and this time I'll give it my best shot.