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Want to feel aroused

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Dec 5, 2019.

  1. I don't know what it is.... Lately I've been doing good in the sense that I've been maintaining decent streaks.
    1-2 weeks.
    Then I cave.
    Its always for the same reason. Not because I'm horny and have to do it. But because I'm not horny and want to see if I can make myself horny :(
    Anyone have any words of inspiration that might help me change my perspective.
    I really want to make the 90 days for once
    I notice so much improvement in clarity etc when I don't mess with this Bs
     
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  2. coldhearted

    coldhearted Fapstronaut

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    Maybe you're just a bit paranoid and if you feel like you're not aroused you may think there is something wrong with you but it's really not. Just keep going even if you experience this flatline. The flatline means that your brain starts to heal and so it's not really something to be concerned about.
     
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  3. Kakarot_2694

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    Ahh been there...done that... I remember the time I read in the success stories of how nofap increased dick size and girth and whatnot...damn...being the fool I was I wanted to see for myself if *cough cough* the little general had actually been promoted...and to test that I actually wanted to make him 'rise in ranks' by watching you know what... though I remember promising myself just to measure and not masturbate to it...
    a load of bull crap was what it was... I just couldn't control...ended up bloody fapping and throwing away the 15 or something days streak I had back then...thing is,the brain has a lot of tricks under it's sleeves... it'd be like," boy,see if your Dick's dead, see if your Dick's become long"and a load of crap
    Don't fall for it man...just not worth it..
    Your Dick's working just fine... always remember that
     
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  4. People do things because they want the effects they produce, you do it for the same reason - you want the effects. How you rationally explain it to yourself makes no difference.
     
  5. Yup. That's exactly what it is. Soooo fucken stupid.
    Know what will make it work even better??? If I finish the 90days haha.
    Well here we go again.
     
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  6. 5.4lTriton

    5.4lTriton Fapstronaut

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    KEEP YOURSELF GOING! I failed my challenge earlier today, after going for about 20 days. I had ALMOST EXACTLY what you had. The first week I was scared of failing due to being slightly aroused when waking up (why? I don't know). But then in the recent days, the arousal in the morning hours subsided. However, instead I felt the EXTREME NEED to get on my computer. I logged on, then kinda looked around on reddit and other sites that were safe for something arousing. Needless to say, I didn't find anything due to the sites being safe and censored. But earlier today, I just ended my near 20 day streak. Now I'm trying again tomorrow to go 90 days.

    Here are some tips, use this forum to express your feelings. Take your urges out on the keyboard and talk. Then play some video games, preferably online.
     
  7. Fuck me man I'm in a tailspin... Idk why I can't get through this
     
  8. Arnuld

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    The 1-2 week mark is always a challenge. You are not just trying to see if you can make yourself “horny” your brain is needing a dopamine fix and it is looking for an excuse to get it. You need to stay the course beyond 1-2 weeks. It gets better.
     
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