NoFap

  1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

Well This is my final stand

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Bandido, Dec 15, 2019.

  1. Dec 15, 2019 #1
    Bandido

    Bandido Fapstronaut

    127
    68
    28
    I’m close to 36 and haven’t had a girl in years mostly because I’m afraid of not getting it up without having to resort to boner pills which have side effects and stuff. I have no problem getting erections with the porn Fetishes I have. I get morning woods too not everyday but it happens even though I’m full addicted

    I will quit escorts which only worsened my issue. I want to have a girlfriend one day and I don’t know how long is going to take but is almost impossible to get hard with just my hand. I always need porn.

    If I do fix this now time is just going to keep passing by. I tried before but only a couple of weeks at most with the goal of just having an easier time ejaculating with escorts.
     
    Bandido, Dec 15, 2019
    Bandido, Dec 15, 2019
    #1
    Fenix Rising likes this.
  2. Dec 18, 2019 #2
    MrT3650

    MrT3650 Fapstronaut

    29
    17
    8
    Stop watching porn. Stop playing with your penis. Stop calling escorts. Man up. Stop wanting a girlfriend. Fix your sexual issues first then proceed in finding love. Goodluck
     
    MrT3650, Dec 18, 2019
    MrT3650, Dec 18, 2019
    #2
  3. Dec 18, 2019 #3
    ZenAF

    ZenAF Fapstronaut

    526
    906
    93
    Your situation isn't as bad as you think. With 36 you're still young enough to make the change that will bring you the life you always dreamed off. You're not a woman with the biological clock ticking.

    Start dating women. Forget about the sex. Just keep postponing it, they will actually crave you more because you don't want to fuck them. Learn to eat pussy real good. Then, when the time is right, be honest and tell the truth about your addiction and your fear of sexual failure. They won't like it of course but they will respect you for manning up to it and they will give you time to fix it.
    In parallel you should do everything in your power to improve you life on every front: improve your career, get more money, work out, find a sport if you don't already have one, learn a new skill you always wanted to learn (your brain is going to tell you that you don't have time, just ignore it and start anyway), learn to cook, keep your house clean, make your life better. That's how you quit porn.
    There's obviously more to quitting porn, like understanding your unconscious, being honest about your intentions and all that jazz, but you can find that out on your own.
     
    ZenAF, Dec 18, 2019
    ZenAF, Dec 18, 2019
    #3

Share This Page