Weak personality?

At first I guess you need to understand what axectly person you want to be. You can even wright it down on paper, think about characters from movies and films, what you like in them, what your goals. Without exect target you can't get stronger. Inner strench is very philosophical, my advice to follow exect patterns that you want to have. That's how I have done it. I was having similiar situation, no father since 6 years. If you will have this patterns to follow, that u are believe in, it's will be easier to not to follow other people.

 

Hi there,
I think a lot of people do this, I know I certainly used to and I think its linked to low self confidence. When you are nervous about 'being yourself' you tend to imitate people and things you feel are 'acceptable' or popular because you may feel your own version of 'you' isn't good enough. What you say about not having a father figure would make sense as you may not have had a male role model who you felt comfortable being yourself around. My advice would be to not worry too much about it but work at your self confidence (quitting porn really helps with this as I discovered on my longest streak) and you'll probably find your own personality comes through a good deal more.
All the best brother and keep fighting

 

Read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy. It will blow your mind and provide a plan to change your thinking process and behavior to break free.

 

Hey man. Please do check it out. This book may be the bible you need. Don't do like me - I had it om my shelf for one year = I lost one year.

 

Start doing shit that is hard. Lift heavy weights, run, learn a difficult skill, take cold showers, build something. Doing hard things will build your character.