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Why do I only get turned on by physical stuff and not porn or pictures?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by squidcool, Dec 22, 2019.

  1. squidcool

    squidcool Fapstronaut

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    Why do I only get turned on by physical stuff and not porn or pictures? I know I’m straight and I think I have low testosterone but need help. Another reason is that I suffer from hocd
     
  2. an0n8200

    an0n8200 Fapstronaut

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    What do you mean by physical stuff?
     
  3. squidcool

    squidcool Fapstronaut

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    Like if I’m near a real girl. For instance rubbing my body against her or hugging her
     
  4. I don't know man. Just watch porn and masturbate twice a day, hopefully you'll become an addict soon enough if that's what you want...
     
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  5. Lilla_My

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    What if... you are completely normal?

    After all, it's not evolutionary beneficial to be turned on by pictures or other people having relations while touching oneself. Humans are on the other hand primed to be sexually functional when we are physical with other non related individuals.

    The HOCD is super common among porn addicts and nothing to worry about. It's what happens when the brain is no longer responsive to normal stimulus. It will go away eventually when you stop porn.
     
    Last edited: Dec 22, 2019
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  6. squidcool

    squidcool Fapstronaut

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    Wdym???
     
  7. an0n8200

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    I thought by physical stuff you meant you had resorted to stealing bras and stuff... Sounds like you’re completely normal dude.
     
  8. squidcool

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    Thanks I was shitting my self and In a way I felt my hocd go away there :)
     
  9. Seems like a boon in disguise, to be honest, if you don't get turned on by stuff that's freely available on any device 24/7.
    If the only thing that you can get hard to is real girls, you won't waste your time in the virtual world, seems like a pretty good win-win.
     
  10. squidcool

    squidcool Fapstronaut

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    Wait so basically I have quite good?
     
  11. Yeah, quite amusingly you're in a great place to be honest :)
    If only I could ignore my computer and have to resort to talk to real girls to feel good - Oh, man, what wouldn't I give to have that!
    That would be an awesome motivation to improving my social life, and I think you've hit gold here if that's how your mind works.
     
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  12. Awedouble

    Awedouble Fapstronaut

    As long as that's consentual that's probably not a problem. Just don't be doing that with some random girl on the bus while she's not looking or something that'd be creepy.
     
  13. squidcool

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    Jesus that’s made me just realised that I don’t actually have bad at all. Another reason I had hocd was because I didn’t get turned on by porn and stuff. Even though I didn’t get turned on by gay porn i thought that must be the only thing but then I realised when I’m with girls I’m super horny I wish you luck in stoping your porn addiction.
     
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  14. squidcool

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    No obviously. that’s another I fear being labelled as a pedo or a rapist
     

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