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Loneliness is the cause of my recurrence

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Si bolang, Dec 27, 2019.

  1. Si bolang

    Si bolang Fapstronaut

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    Two days ago I relapsed after nofap for 21 days, my longest line is 35 days later 29 days.
    after my evaluation it turned out that the cause of my relapse last night was I felt lonely, needed a real lover and finally I opened youtube to watch a romantic story in which there is a hot kiss scene that makes my brain want more things, yes of course it ended with opening a porn site then I masturbating. It's annoying considering I have 21 days of nofap but I will start it again by learning from my mistakes.
    Can anyone give advice to be able to do better so that my line can survive?
     
  2. BreakingBenjamin

    BreakingBenjamin Fapstronaut

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    You have to believe that you will not be lonely forever.
    A fapper usually wants to be alone, but someone who avoids fapping will push himself outside the house, and will make friends and meet people, one step at a time. So keep fighting the urges to masturbate, and get new hobbies instead :)
     
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  3. Si bolang

    Si bolang Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the advice bro, I will try not to be alone too long at home because it will trigger me to think towards pmo
     
  4. Lollypopgremlin

    Lollypopgremlin Fapstronaut

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    You can also get an accountability partner to communicate with. It's not romantic, but it helps with loneliness
     
  5. when i started nofap i did it cause that i thought that by beliving that im good enough for sex and stopping pmo i could get laid. as time went by, nofap became a habit and i realizid its over for me. but despite my cravings i also realized thats it pointless to lust over girls that dont like you back so i accepted my fate
     
  6. Si bolang

    Si bolang Fapstronaut

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    Are you willing to be my accountability partner?

     
  7. Si bolang

    Si bolang Fapstronaut

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    [QUOTE = "Mandala, posting: 2373344, anggota: 374206"] ketika saya mulai nofap saya melakukannya karena saya berpikir bahwa dengan meyakini bahwa saya cukup baik untuk bercinta dan berhenti, saya bisa bercinta. Seiring berjalannya waktu, nofap menjadi kebiasaan dan saya menyadari itu sudah berakhir untuk saya. tetapi meskipun mengidam saya, saya juga menyadari itu tidak ada gunanya untuk bernafsu atas gadis-gadis yang tidak suka Anda kembali jadi saya menerima nasib saya [/ QUOTE]
    How do you overcome the urge?
     
  8. there isnt a standard way. id recommend going outside or away from pc
     
  9. Si bolang

    Si bolang Fapstronaut

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    [QUOTE = "Mandala, posting: 2373484, anggota: 374206"] tidak ada cara standar. id merekomendasikan keluar atau jauh dari pc [/ QUOTE]
    [QUOTE = "Mandala, posting: 2373484, anggota: 374206"] tidak ada cara standar. id merekomendasikan keluar atau jauh dari pc [/ QUOTE]
    Alright friend, are you from Indonesia?
     
  10. no
     
  11. Lollypopgremlin

    Lollypopgremlin Fapstronaut

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    Sure. WhatsApp at +13059236196
     
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  12. Lollypopgremlin

    Lollypopgremlin Fapstronaut

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    Anybody can text me if they need or want to.
     
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