Wife keeps making me wear condoms??!

Have sex in the shower sometimes?

 

I know what you mean. I remember making love outside in the woods when we were teenagers, I doubt we would do that now in our fifties. Getting older is a right pain.

Back to your original question. Could you negotiate a monthly treat where you don't use a condom? Perhaps run a hot scented bath with candles etc. so that the clean-up was part of your post-sex togetherness.

 

So, I've noticed that with NoFap not only is there a lot more fluid, but that I sometimes don't last as long (especially if it's been a while), and condoms definitely help with that. I wonder if that might be part of the issue.

I've never really minded condoms, though. I think I'm weird that way.

 

I never really thought of this as a "benefit" of wearing condoms, but I guess it is. (Still, I hope my gf doesn't get this idea in her head).

Almost all of my previous partners made me wear condoms, even after we had been tested, etc. I always found this very frustrating (especially when they'd tell me how they hadn't done that with other partners . . . ) but now I am seeing a silver lining in that - we could cuddle right after sex and not have any interruptions.

I always feel so bad when my gf has to run off after sex, trying to get to the bathroom without spilling.

I do have one alternative method for cleaning up that mess but I'm not sure if I have the gumption to suggest it to my girlfriend, yet, but if she started making me wear condoms, I might be more motivated.

I hope that you find a balance with your wife and that you both have a great time ringing in the New Year!