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What is this best dating app to meet women ?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Kman20, Nov 12, 2019.

  1. Invictvs

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    If you want a serious relationship, then use some logic. Why would a girl who is serious use a free app? A girl that is serious would use a paid one...try eharmony or match. Its pricey sure, but it's worth it to filter out a ton of trash and fake profiles.
     
  2. I'm sure you mean well but i have to disagree with that. eharmony is one of the worst paid dating apps in my opinion. You have to answer hundreds of questions before you can create your profile. While you might be fine doing that a lot of the users on there just can't be bothered because these days people are used to apps like Tinder where you can create a profile in minutes and not 30 minutes. So you just end up with a load of abandoned incomplete profiles on eharmony. And they have to make up for it with fake profiles so it looks like an active platform. Match.com is much better but in my experience it has too many single mothers...

    I don't know where you live but hinge works the best for me here and its a free app. There are good free apps you just have to try them all and find one that works for you.
     
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  3. Invictvs

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    I'm probably biased a little. I met my fiance on eHarmony. Worked like a charm for me. You do have to answer a ton of questions...but it is trying to find good matches for you. I think some of it's silly, but at the same time what's 30 minutes to an hour compared to the chance of a serious long term relationship? I won't dog on Hinge because I've never heard about it. Tinder is just a hookup app...and since most here are recovering porn addicts it doesn't seem like a very smart option because it still gives you the seeking and searching feeling, and not to mention risque pictures.

    It did take me a while to find someone close by on eharmony...and it was about a month before I went on a date. I'd check my messages about once an week, and I'd spend an hour on a weekend day browsing. There were a lot of matches, but most were and hour and a half or more away from me and that was a deal breaker.....I think I did put that I didn't want someone with kids already though and I dont think it showed me anyone that did.
     
  4. Cool i might give eHarmony another shot when i get back into dating again. To be fair i tried it years ago and my experience was not that great. I had very few interactions and the one girl i did talk to on there we had already met on another dating app before. It was a bit weird it was like we were the only real people on the platform because nobody was talking to her either. But maybe it's different now. I have no issues with answering all of their questions my only concern was that other people were not as dedicated and serious about it back then.
     
  5. Invictvs

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    It could be just be the area. I know two other guys that met their significant others on there..but both of them were okay with the people they met being a good distance away. I don't think it's something that's meant to have you meet someone right away....if you'd try it I'd recommend casually checking messages every few days to see if anything comes up. Maybe get on once a week and send something to anyone you're interested in. That's my two cents...and I'll concede that it's not for everyone.
     
  6. klaris

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    I'm still lonely Why is it so difficult to find a loved one?
     
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    Do you think love compatibility for zodiac signs plays a big role? I recently met one guy and kept wondering why we didn’t have a relationship with him. He seems to be a good guy, without bad habits (this is very good, because my last boyfriend was a drug addict and I was very tormented with him) and I just found information about love compatibility for zodiac signs https://freehoroscope.info/compatibility/love/ and I realized that we just didn’t fit each other at all. Do you think this is true?
     
  8. ahighertruth

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    myspace was the best until 2010, havent found anything quite as effective.
     
  9. ahighertruth

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    i dont get the whole cold approaching women not interested...whats the point really?
     
  10. ahighertruth

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    i would get tested ASAP
     
  11. Anakin66

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    The true art of seduction should not be affected by the current me-too climate. In fact it should be a challenge. Once you can become a confident man you can have a healthy relationship with virtually any woman that is based on respect and admiration.
     
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  12. ahighertruth

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    but theres already girls who blush at me that im hesitant approaching so idk i rather just work at talking to girls that actually like me than girls who don't even know i exist.

    i just don't get why you'd approach someone whose busy when another girl could be checking u out somewhere else.

    im not a pua though so maybe its some kind of rush they get?
     
  13. ahighertruth

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    day game is good for improving social skills but yeah it doesn't make a woman like you anymore than she does already. like they say, a woman decides in the first 10 seconds if she wants to sleep with someone. that usually holds true regardless of how good your game is.
     
  14. Anakin66

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    That's why you have to bring your A game in the first 10 seconds.
     
  15. I believe that's it's more accurate to say that she decides in the first few seconds if she will consider sleeping with someone.
     
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    I’ve usually had something to work with on a dating site or an ongoing convo. But it’s dried up recently and the daily routine of getting the bus in the morning and afternoon just continues on. Feeling depressed.
     
  17. StuartV

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    You're right, but even paid one have their trash or even paid girls which'll speak with you just for money
     
  18. rob13_

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    Dating apps are for profit 1st, and then actual love a distant 2nd. Remember that when you choose to use them.
     
  19. StuartV

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    Man, you're extremely right
     
  20. StuartV

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    It is hard to listen to someone's advice because are all different people and we want different things. I was in a really bad place few months ago and I decided to try out a dating site. I did not want to use Tinder and I tried an adult dating site because they promised that you will find girls to have sex at the first date. If you are looking for that I can tell you about this site. I did not really believe it, but it was nice to be on a date with the girl that actually came on the date. I had a few no shows in my time... The girl was decent looking and she wanted the same thing, all in all it was good.

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    https://shagbook.com/
     
    Last edited: Nov 1, 2020

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