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New to NoFap and need urgent help!

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by leonskratos, Jan 2, 2020.

  1. leonskratos

    leonskratos Fapstronaut

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    Hello. Its day 18 since I last fapped. There is something weird going on with me, so I know what is precum and that's totally normal for me. I'm more of a challenging being. I wanted to make myself stronger by watching porn (not too much) and still refraining from masturbation. Its just something that made me feel very confident. And I'm going good. But today after watching porn I felt a little pressure on the tip of my penis like something is trying to get out. I felt the tip and it was this gooey type substance almost like semen on my fingertips I rubbed it with my fingers and it became into this white substance. What does this mean. Is my tank full and leaking ? I'm feeling a bit down down just like one masturbates and feels afterwards. Do I need to be worried? Am I still in the game?

    Anxiously waiting for support :(
    Thank you
     
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  2. Hi @leonskratos
    You are lying yourself, watching P and not MO is the same shit
    The goal here is to stop having "fake sex" with fake lovers, and have sex with real people
    This means engaging in contact with persons and not with pixelated p stars
    If you have ejaculated or not is irrelevant

    here are some tips that may help you in your reboot:
    It is a big step if you can understand what is triggering your urges, because this will allow you to be awake and kill those urges as soon as they appear.

    I recommend you to create your own "Emergency Toolbox" with readings that can be handy to read when you start feeling urges to screw up.
    I can share this post with you with my own Emergency Toolbox, it helped me a lot during the first few months, i had them in my cell and read them every time I started falling down:

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-first-320-days-of-reboot.62938/#post-473978

    I wrote some tips in this post that perhaps will help you too:

    http://NoFap.com/forum/index.php?threads/tips-that-helped-me-to-start-my-reboot.46617/#post-330318
    You can watch some interesting videos which are also very helpful in this post:
    http://nofap.com/forum/index.php?th...t-help-me-a-lot-during-my-reboot.39774/page-2

    I also suggest you to read "Breaking the Cycle" by George Collins, it is a must-read if you are serious about getting rid of this addiction.

    To get more focus and feel happier with life I recommend you to start doing meditation.. I have been using an App called Headspace for the last two months which is great if you have never meditated before. The first 10 sessions are free if you want to give a try. I used to feel a bit depressed or feeling without energy to start new projects in my life, and meditation has helped me a lot with this.

    Last but not least, I would strongly recommend you to take new e-course that Mark Queppet launched in his new website, called: " REFORGED MAN: Quit porn and Master Yourself-Be a Man you Admire", it is the updated version of the e-course he used to have in NoFap Academy. It is not cheap ($200) but it is totally worth it because he gives great toold to fight PMO.You can find it here:
    https://courses.universalman.com/courses/reforged-man
    You can also join his website called Patreon, where he posts great stuff for free every week, and also you can join the pay area to be part of his weekly video calls where you can chat with them in real life, get coaching and listen to other guys's stories and problems too. You can find it here:
    https://www.patreon.com/home

    I hope that all this helps you to fight this shitty addiction.
    Let's keep on fighting

    Fercho
     
  3. xjosamx

    xjosamx Fapstronaut

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    You should stop that behavior if you care about yourself and your wellbeing. I understand the logic that you used by It's just not a good idea. Throw porn in the gutter and leave it behind for good. Meeting a real girl with intimacy and emotions is lightyears better, trust me.
     
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  4. Never ever do it again. Don't watch porn for confidence. For confidence - never watch it again. Stop that behavior. PLEASE!
    This sort of cuming thing is just normal. I recently happened to see porn and when I saw a REALLY triggering scene, I almost came by just watching it. Just a normal thing. Be careful.
     
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  5. What's the point in watching P? Are you going for Mr. Pornwatcher? Or you can't watch other movies cause plots are too complicated?? You know when hungry at the buffet your mouth produces saliva. And now you drip and wonder why ?
    Hm ... stop watching P and the tap will stop leaking.
     
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  6. Sounds like you’re leaking semen. As you watch porn your body is reacting and preparing you for actual sex even though your not going to have actual sex. The physiological response is the same. To avoid this same situation you should stop looking at porn and triggering your sexual response. A fulfilling life involves other people. Go work on having real meaningful relationships. Stay away from self gratification, it will only lead to depression and misery.
     
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  7. leonskratos

    leonskratos Fapstronaut

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    mr pornwatcher was a good one. Youre so right.
     
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  8. leonskratos

    leonskratos Fapstronaut

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    Youre right. My next challenge is refraining from porn.
     
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