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Dating a girl, feel doomed

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Deleted Account, Jan 8, 2020.

  1. Jan 8, 2020 #1
    Deleted Account

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    So I started seeing a girl in early December. I wasn't on a streak then - major mistake. I am now 6 days into nofap this time around.

    I was making out with this girl, but I felt lifeless. It was unresponsive and I was thinking how I kissed her in my first date and I was somewhat responsive.

    Is this too early for me to be panicking?
     
    Deleted Account, Jan 8, 2020
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  2. Jan 10, 2020 #2
    Infrasapiens

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    I think you are thinking too much about it. For now you should focus on having a good time, but I think if you manage to develop feelings for her, things should start getting in place.
     
    Infrasapiens, Jan 10, 2020
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  3. Jan 10, 2020 #3
    NF SINCE BIRTH

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    No need to panic yet. Maybe tell her so she doesn't think it is about you not liking her? Keep your streak going. Stuff should fall in place soon.
     
    NF SINCE BIRTH, Jan 10, 2020
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  4. Jan 10, 2020 #4
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    I'm at the flatline. I get a slight morning wood in the morning and other than that my libido is lifeless. The unknown of when it ends scares me the most.
     
    Deleted Account, Jan 10, 2020
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  5. Jan 10, 2020 #5
    Infrasapiens

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    Imagine romantic activites you could do with her and they try them. It can be as simple as just looking her in the eyes. That always worked for me (Down there) when I was in a relationship, it was pretty awkward sometimes.
     
    Infrasapiens, Jan 10, 2020
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  6. Jan 11, 2020 #6
    Jerseyguy1963

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    I really wish someone could give us an answer as to when this damned sexual flatline is likely to end. I know there are guys who take longer. But, what is the average?

    I’m exactly where you are, West. Slight morning wood but nothing otherwise. I tried to have sex last night to a crashing fail.

    There’s a girl I’ll be seeing on the 28th I really want. I’d really rather not still have dead wood.

    it’s frustrating because I’m exactly the same as you. I kissed the girl before starting NoFap and got hard as hell.
    Now, nothing is happening.
     
    Jerseyguy1963, Jan 11, 2020
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