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I'm starting to see how important changing your is in porn recovery.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by skaterdrew, Jan 11, 2020.

  1. skaterdrew

    skaterdrew Fapstronaut

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    A lot of the time I am not even horny. I am also hardly getting any urges ext.

    But what I realise is because I am not happy and not out doing enjoyable healthy things regularly that this alone is causing me to end up on porn.

    I am starting to see I am going to need to change my life, where I am doing healthy enjoyable rewarding things regularly.

    I think as long as I can do this, even if I do have the occasional relapse, as long as I put my focus in to living a healthy rewarding life by engaging in healthy rewarding activities regularly that this maybe is the answer?

    It's just finding healthy rewarding activities I can do on a daily basis that's the problem?
     
  2. Honestly all you need is Jesus, I have fully dedicated myself to him and I have had no problem fighting my urges now, my love for him is far greater than my love of porn, when you dedicate yourself to him you really become transformed by him and the want to sin becomes non existent.
     
  3. AcousticBruce

    AcousticBruce Fapstronaut

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    I know where you are at. Yes. You are starting on the right track but it is going to take some soul searching as well. You cannot just distract yourself out of this. Since porn was your distraction, you would be doing the same thing. But... you did say that you are unhappy. I image depressed at times (is that right?). If this is true, it could be a number of things. So keep searching. Be courageous . I did just post a nice post a while ago. Check it out. It is about self-worth.
     
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    fighting men 2.O Fapstronaut

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