Going on a date in a few days with PIED

I've unfortunately went on many dates while having it and this was really before I knew what PIED was. I always told myself that it must of have been the girl or maybe I wasn't in the mood. I even dated a girl while having it and that relationship really ended badly due to it. That really hurt. It really sucks and now that I'm more educated on the subject, I will definitely take it slow if I get into any dates.

Good luck man!! Hope it goes well.

 

You should probably avoid dating and allow yourself time to recover first. Also there's possibly some anxiety there because you CAN get aroused and get an erection through kiss but like you said when it comes to oral/penetration it weakens. That tells you think maybe you're also nervous. Continue with no PMO and give yourself some time.

 

I have the same dilemma right now after dating a very nice woman i strongly feel for.
I'm currently on day 15 of my NoFap streak (few relapses), but I afraid my dick will fail on my when we spend our first important night together.
My plan is to take it very slowly with her and to tell her about my past sex addiction. She might not understand it, but it's paramount for
me to share because I want her to love me including my temporary flaws.

I know it would be best for me to first complete a 90 day streak, but I can't let this fine woman wait so long.

 

Exact same situation here. I feel you brother.

 

Be seductive about it.

Take it slow.

If things escalate and you two are just vibing, kiss her. Suck on her neck. Spend time on her neck with your mouth. Give her breasts some attention. Go down on her for 40 minutes.

When she tells you to fuck her, look deeply into her eyes and say seductively, “You wish.”

Continue to give her oral until she is really satisfied.

Now, you are the one she wants.

this will give you the time you need for your brain to heal.

 

Hey guys, just wanted to quickly share what happened when the girl I'm dating stayed overnight a few days ago:

Since I've got Flatline for 2 weeks and no morning wood whatsoever, I told her about it and this time she understood and she was okay with waiting until the reboot is done.

After that conversation about the reboot, we had a magical night of talking, kissing, cuddling, oral, without any sleep and feeling deeply connected. I noticed it's important to engage in sexual activities even if you have PIED. It's been told a thousand times and it's true: there are many ways you can make your girl feel good, do it! That will strengthen the bond between the two of you.

If you're with the right girl, PIED is not a problem. You can't control PIED, and it's not your fault. If a woman gets upset about or does not understand PIED, I would not keep dating her. How would such a woman react if other problems pop up in the future? Losing a job, being sick, ... chances are that women who are not supportive of PIED will also not support you with any other problems.

 

great prospective .

 

It sounds like a magical night, IP. Given that there was no pressure, did you feel stirring in your junk?

 

Pardon? Please do only use very basic language, thank you.