Sex orgasm vs Masturbation orgasm

That's what I've always wondered too. Like how does the body know an orgasm from masturbation is different than an orgasm from a partner. I'm not disagreeing that the body knows the difference, just always been curious too.

 

I think porn is the real difference here. The dopamine rush it gives is higher than sex because multiple partners, countless fetish, etc...

Also you know what you are doing. You know when you are alone in your room or with someone you love.
It’s like winning a game fairly or while cheating. Even if the end result is the same, you know there is something off.

 

Makes sense, good explanation.

 

Its not your body. Its your brain. Your brain understands tbat youre looking at pixels and when youre inside of a woman. The difference for me was after MO to porn i was depressed and hopeless. While after orgasm in a woman its like taking a refreshing shower, & kinda like a shot of coffee that perks and wakes you up sometimes.

Sex in the morning 1st thing starts the day off on a good note while PMO 1st thing essentislly ruins my day

 

Any ejaculation results in loss of energy, strength, and attendant confusion. You lose zinc as a man, other nutrients, the body has to recover as well as losing some self-respect. I believe both men and women lose strength usually in sex unless they do the tantric method. I never liked ejaculation which is messy; when I watched porn I found ejaculation in it (the money shot) disgusting. I have no idea why that is popular.

Gandhi in his health guide goes into this and why he practiced abstinence; greater mental powers and vitality. Check online, Gandhi's health guide is free.

 

When I cum in a girl I feel like I gain confidence but when I fap I lose it.
I don't think it's to do with the orgasm but more to do with what you're actually doing.

 

Your body definitley knows the difference. I can't explain it exactly, but I read from an expert that there is a huge difference also in the released hormones if you have an orgasm in a women's vagina or if you're doing it solo in your room. There's also a difference if you don't orgasm in her vagina and f.e. bring yourself to orgasm while she's with you. So the difference is basically if there is a partner involved, or if you do it just on your own in your lonely room.

Porn orgasm is definitely the worst. But from my experience orgasm from masturbation alone also has a lot of negative side-effects. I usually always get depressed during the following week.

Orgasm with women just feels very good. And there's usually no depression after it. But I probably wouldn't orgasm too much. It can be very draining for your energy if you orgasm multime times in one day even if it's with a women. Orgasm once a week is what works good for me, the rest of the time I have sex, but don't ejaculate, which doesn't mean I don't have orgasm.

The mistake most men share is that they think ejaculation = orgasm. After being on NoFap for 3 and a half years and a bit of tantric experience I can tell this isn't the case. Today I have full body orgasms without ejaculation that are way more satisfying than the orgasms with ejaculation that I had when I was still watching porn.

And by the way, a lot of women get really horny, if you have earned a lot of control over your body and ejacultation, and just do it when you really want to and limit yourself to f.e. one time a week.

I think every man has to find out what "ejaculation rhythm" works best for him. I personally avoid masturbation in general or at least not more than once every 2 months. And with women not more often than once a week/or every 2 weeks.

 

The orgasm is the climax of an experience. Look at the sexual experience as a whole.

Sex with a partner includes kissing, massage, foreplay, oral, intercourse, eye contact, the feel of a warm body and two people reaching orgasm.

PMO only hits on one piece of the sexual experience - your orgasm. That's it.

So much of the sexual experience is missing. Why else do we feel so much shame and lack of fulfillment when we orgasm to porn?

 

I agree with most other people's observations on this subject. There is probably something very ultimately positive about real sex with or without seed release in a woman. Sex is a emotionally demanding event in most cases, where you are uniting with the other person's family and forebears.

It seems to me that there are many fallacies about sex as some type of an "achievement" for the guy, ie "scoring", without regard to how strongly the woman may feel with affection and real love together with the erotic event.

Some people say porn is totally fake, sometimes yes, sometimes no. It all depends. I always thought that real couples being recorded was a lot more attractive than those who do it for "work". Hardly any upper class people have had their couplings filmed because it is a career killer. Where does a porn actress go from the San Fernando valley of cheapening trysts? It is very hard for a former actress to find a decent guy to settle down with when her trysts are so public. There are many jobs such a girl could not hold after it of a public nature, teacher, customer service of various types, etc..

 

Because your eyes are also a part of your body ._.