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Why does transwoman porn get me harder than anything else

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Jan 14, 2020.

  1. I escalted a while ago . But always watched straight porn and it was all I ever needed , girl on girl and cam girl , hard quality was always at full capacity

    But eventually started getting less from porn , after well over a decade .

    Then found this genre .

    Here's the thing , why does transgendered person porn get me way harder than normal porn ,

    I can't watch dudes or gay dudes , it just doesn't do anything for me just like chucking a bucket of ice water over me , and some of the transwomen I've seen its even worse , soft in under 2 seconds ,

    With that said Some give me a big increase in hard on quality .

    I used to be this way with regular porn but after about 15 years not so much I don't get the same level of arousal anymore.
     
  2. Infrasapiens

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    Because it is new, give it a moment and it will get boring too.
     
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  3. Koloz

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    what above said
     
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  4. dogeatdog

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    That's what porn does to your mind. Imagine scanning a picture and printing it - the quality will be lower right? Now imagine scanning that printed picture and reprinting it over and over again; your brain will descend to only be able to enjoy severer and severer fetishes.
     
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  5. SeekingPower

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    It has been discussed a lot here. Maybe the longest topic should be pinned.
    For a lot of guys transwoman was the last straw before coming here. Me is no exception.

    The explanation I found most natural for me was that transwomen are even more submissive and abused that girls. their feminity is exagerated.
     
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  6. I'm a strange breed these days , I'm not particularly interested in being in a relationship, I can't see myself settling down or ever getting married , and I'm pretty comfortable with it. I watch porn on occasion simply to switch up my dopamine, change my headspace for a minute and relieve tension . .

    I came here because initially I freaked out because if my interest in this genre , and questioned myself, but I'm not gay , so it has become clear to me it's just an odd kink or fetish . And it doesn't hold anything over me anymore, I have no desire to bang a transgendered person and probably never will. Its just something I watch from time to time and money n a way I'm actually thankful for this genre because , women don't have such a hold on you anymore . I still like women .

    Porn has very well damaged my brain a bit my preferences . I've always been a hetero sexual male have always slept with women and have always loved it. But I'm bored as fuck with the porn, probably from over consumption.

    And it eventually led to this , this genre doesn't always do it for me , the transwoman has to look a certain way otherwise it doesn't do it for me and I'm more grossed out than anything.

    And if I watch too much I'm more feeling of sickness ,

    But given the right material sure I can get rock solid to it .

    Although I'm a hetero male normal porn only gets me rock hard if I haven't watched it in ages . It used to for well over a decade , but just doesn't anymore


    If you ever watch cam sites , the majority of the time the girl is lying around waiting to be paid and the other half she's mostly faking. Once you've had your fun with cam sites , and interacted with it in a sense you know the mantra, you can appreciate hot naked girls , but after awhile you need more than 15+ mins of girl doing nothing to stay rick hard. Cam sites is almost like conditioning yourself to lose interest .

    I would assume it's exactly the same for women , if a women watched a dude in cam while he was soft and just looking at his phone and waiting around to get paid , after awhile she'd get bored of that, and considering women usually need more stimulation than men .

    It seems inevitable that with heavy porn use you will eventually watch all sorts if genres .

    But here lies the problem , what has it done to the brain , this over exposure, I'm not gay, and probably couldn't and also wouldn't fuck a transgendered person, but I'm pretty much bored of the standard , unless I stay away from everything for quite a while that includes real life .

    Either I stay away from porn and everything returns to normal, or my brain and reward centre is frazzled . And this is what I get off to now
     
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  7. Do you think it ever recovers ?
     
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  8. parad0x

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    I have been where you have been. I even had a real life encounter that absolutely turned my stomach afterwards.

    Long story short. I quit porn over 4 months ago. About 30 days I the fog lifted and I gained some clarity.

    "This transwoman shit is not me"

    Since then I got in the gym as a means to focus my attention elsewhere.

    The result? I got in the best shape of my life, picked up a hot gf at month 3 and I have no desire to watch dudes in dresses get banged anymore.

    However....... I'm under no illusion that if I went back to porn it wouldn't take long to end up in that section of a porn website again.

    So I'm out.... FOR LIFE.

    You can be too. Commit to 90days and see how you go, that's my advice.
     
  9. dogeatdog

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    I definitely think that with enough time away from P and M, your brain will slowly rewire itself to the way it was before you were exposed to that severe fetish stuff. It takes time for your brain to heal, and its unlikely that your attraction to these fetishes will last forever if you keep your brain away from it.
     
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  10. Raul888

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    So you don't have any interest to watch transwoman porn or have sex with them in real life? Not at all?
     
  11. Yea not at all, looking at someone on cam or in porn is completely different to seeing them in real life ,. Most of the time when I watch transwoman porn the dick grosses me out , but for some strange reason in a world of no limits watching stuff online your mind created a fantasy .
    Personally a transwoman got naked in front of me I'd probably heave , firstly because actual real life dick is far from a turn in to me and second I wouldn't even attempt going in the back door because I don't like man ass. So essentially the entire fantasy would be shattered in reality ,I've seen a transwoman before in real life , by accident , I'm not attracted , and the thought of going near an actual cock is not what I'm into at all definitely not . Its literally just visual stimulation in porn for me , it doesn't even always arouse me , sometimes it just grosses me out. Firstly I am not attracted to the reality and secondly I would never try it out simple as that
     
  12. parad0x

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    Absolutely none. Staying away from it killed my desire. But I'm certain watching porn would reignite so I stay away.
     
  13. blademaster87

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    I used to be obsessed with worrying about this transwoman fetish. You'll eventually end up switching from pussies to transwomen in porn because of the dopamine rush (it's taboo). Plus, sexual perfomance may be higher with transwomen because they are usually more willing and know how the dick works. In terms of sex I've never had it with one and my main thing is pussy, but I'd be willing to try it out if the babe was real cute and had sweet boobs.
     
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  15. Raul888

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    Thanks for your answer. I have the same problem and I experiences real life relationship a couple of times. I hope my mind get rid of it as well. Please let me know if there is anything that help me recover from this.
     
  16. Raul888

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    Thanks for your answer brother. That is a good news.
     

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