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yes NoFap cures transwoman and other fetishes

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Jan 24, 2020.

  1. So I had this issue with porn for a while where I eventually escalated to transwoman porn, which was a shock , I went through the process of hocd thinking I have to be a closet gay, I tested myself more with this genre to try and unwravel the root cause and was I hiding something from myself that I never new.

    After time it was clear to me that I'm definitely not gay. But that after a period of time I had conditioned myself for more escalating porn types , transwoman seemed like the next step up everything . Looking back now how warped is that perception the perception of escaltion that this is the next step.

    For a while I just pmod to this genre , knowing full well it was all just a warped level of stimulation because I'm reality I have no gay desires , and any interest in this genre was as though being.with a female...no desires to anything else . But again it was coming from a very skewed perception.

    I thought I'd royally fucked up my sexuality and all I could get off to was a chick with a dick even though I don't want to be touched by a dick or touch a dick and I'm reality transgendered person have man ass, and I dont like man ass, so it was as if I've conditioned my sexuality to get off to something I couldn't even bang of I wanted .

    I just sort of stopped caring and went with it ,I knew Im not gay but this is the only thing that current gets me off.

    Long story short .

    Proof NoFap is the answer it is the cure .

    I did a 3 day NoFap within that time I had no desire to watch transwoman stuff.

    I began to flatline. But what I noticed more was my mind body connection coming back , I noticed that porn switches off your own inate ability to fantisize about real everyday women you know or meet , porn pretty much does all that for you but overstimulates . So fantisizing doesn't work anymore and so your mind body connection to real women gets shut down and down regulated .

    When I go NoFap even within a few days I notice my thoughts , I'm noticing women more in real life , and having normal healthy thoughts , I notice this is something that had been weaken by porn and by doing so ability to fantisize and develop strong mind body connection to real life and importantly how that develops into healthy arousal and strong hard ons .

    It's a process that gets better and healthier with NoFap , within that time I'm recovering and back to normal.my.thoughts are on women in a normal healthy way the way they have alwaysbeen, and this is something that NoFap will strengthen, at this stage NoFap really needs to be a lifestyle.

    At this time period I had no desire to.watch transwoman porn because I was already reconnecting with my biological interests .

    Longstory short after day 3 although I was flatlining , think about women , and not desiring porn , I began to get increasingly horny , but not that I couldn't control,. I've realised that that is entirely normal and that that energy is what is causing recovery and that energy needs to be harnessed .

    I decided to test myself on day 3 . I decided to fap . I watched "vanilla" and already very aroused by hot women ..but what I have learned is that porn is very seedy and it's not reality it's on a damn screen , nothing can get you more aroused than the real thing when your fully recovered ..so porn has a limited boundary because I know it's not the real thing and that's become kind of.a turn off jerking to some stranger as opposed to enjoying it in real life .

    So what I learnt is bang 3 days in I'm.thinkimg of women, I'm.gettimg.turned on by vanilla porn but here's the thing I know from.experience I had escalted and I know there is something more.stimulating that is where I needed up.

    So after a few ments of.watching vanilla I went to.watch transwoman.,
    Straight away I was turned on . But very quickly began to.get soft. I realised I'm initially turned on by the girl , the female.like form , then there's the dick and I can't keep.hard, I start to.see all.the more masculine features.than that of real.women and I go soft , I tried to finish and the only way I could was to block the cock from view with my thumb. I think part of the arousal is this is something taboo, bit when you've refreshed your mind and began a few days of NoFap.when you come back, it's literally just a dude a very femine looking but yet this is a dude ..and I can no longer get past that , few days no.fap.and things are much more clear .

    It is clear that we can condition ourselves because of porn.

    And NoFap.absolutley restores your sexuality , your sex drive and your ability to fantasize and feel attracted .

    I saw a women today before testing myself, she was the first thing I noticed walking into the shop...and naturally my thoughts throughout the day just went from there..this is all natural healthy.

    With porn especially what I escalted to I wouldn't notice as much.

    Long story short , it is clear that anyone struggling with porn escaltion, pied, sexuality struggles , NoFap absolutely brings you back to normal..

    I can only say this for myself, some may genuinely have an interest in something or are a certain way inclined . But alot.of dudes who escalate to.this genre are straight hetero.sexual.males..

    I can attest that even a few days , and 3 days is a milestone for me lol 3 days absolutely makes a massive difference.

    Here is where the journey lies, enough NoFap time.and essentially saying
    good bye.to porn knowing how it alters and hyjacks my mind and body , that everything already beginning to happen within 3 days will only get stronger ,

    I'm undt no illusion that of I was to start pmoing I would condition myself again to.thes genres because that is where the stimulation left off. In reality it does nothing.for me, I couldn't and wouldn't bang a transgendered person ..im not I'm to dick I like pussy , women in general and always have been, which really.played with my head when I could no longer get off to vanilla and was now jacking it to chicks with Dick's. It's clear to me.that to recover and to live a normal life atunes to my own biology and to be connected mentally and physically and to have normal.sexual function . NoFap.really is the answer

    So I am back on day one, back on the saddle, but I have learnt a very important lesson , NoFap really is the anawer
     
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  2. phwrancesco

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    I don't think 3 days can be considered as nofap. You've probably experienced some placebo, witch is fine if it helps you.

    To see real resoult you should start actually doing nofap and going for a full 90 days reebot.
     
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  3. Rusername

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    Agree. Three days is nothing.
     
  4. It's nothing in comparison , and obviously a long way to go. But I'm 3 days I see improvement, so that's what it is
     
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    I will be focusing on building up to 90 days ,

    Initially 3 days is the milestone , then I tested myself to have greater insight ..I will be restarting to go the full duration
    But within 3 days I have seen improvements enough to.warrant porn the issue and by testing myself to the same material , there is differences within 3 days

    Of course it will take much longer than 3 days to.recover and sustain, but 3 days I see the path because there are already improvements .
     
  6. Kligor

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    Without offense buddy but with 3 days you can't really feel the change.
    My femdom fetish didn't gone it is still here but now it is weaker than before,even after 17 months of hardmode nofap.
    I wish you best luck.
     
  7. Mine is a porn induced fetish, in real life I don't desire this fetish , it's only there if I watch it, and tbh its not difficult to stay away from.now, because first a) its fucking gross and it's only excessive use of porn that it is even on my radar .

    B) I have absolutely no inate or biological desire for it . 3 days is enough for me to.watch it again and be utterly disgusted , because again it's fucking gross .

    I'll be honest 3 days is and has been enough to put me back in line.. the only.rhing that lies ahead is to NoFap and my natural urges for women will resume ,

    I know how I've always felt about women , it's only the excessive be use of porn.that shuts me down

    I don't know maybe it's just me , my hormones are pretty high .
    And this is why I look.at porn

    But if it's left well alone . Normal fantisizing will return like it has these 3 days .

    I did NoFap before and did only 3 days .

    When I fap i barely notice.women it's shut.me down that much

    Within.3 days I was getting random.hard ons and nearly got a random.when this really.got women was standing close before I decided to walk away .

    I'm not saying this happens all the time that would be weird .

    But fapping kills me but it doesn't take.long abstaining to start triggering natural responses again

    Of course there is a recovery period , but it begins early enough for me

    And this fetish I don't.even care
    It's not.even a fetish it was for a few months, its just gross and i see right through it now.. so it's really just something that was novel.for a while sure these things can trigger a lot of dopamine. Some it seems to last longer than others ,

    It's only there if I watch it , I doesn't exist to me and my natural biological interests in my every day life . So it.has no control over me ..what has come control is the stimulation from pmoing and that's was whatever genre i.was ascribed to before.this escaltion.

    The fact that it is something that I ascribed to but now find disgusting is a good sign to me that NoFap is going to be much easier., See within 3 days I'm.thinking of women and this genre looks.gross.
    I mean come on.this genre is not.exactly normal I don't think biologically my brain was wired to.seek it out . It is not.it is wired to seek females .

    It's a choice.watch porn to.this kind of.shit and shut your normal.sex drive down, or NoFap and get spontaneous hard ons and notice.good looking women and think about women more.. I'd.say that's the natural order which eventually leads to modifying your behaviour goals etc as opposed to my needs are met by this virtual perversion

    Apart from.that it doesn't really get me that aroused anymore , it did at the start but that was before. It aroused me because it was completely new and my mind didn't know.how.to process it , now all I see.is.a dude and a dick , that sure as hell doesn't do it for me , but that is part of this whole package , you see , there is femininity , a freaky nympho vibe, etc etc and before you know it your mind is.weighing it.up.

    I'm reality there is nothing to weigh it's an absolute hell no.

    Porn is just a fap, you could fap.to absolutely nothing and still finish . But any sort of stimulation in the correct way assists , so i.think.woth this genre straight males weigh it up some.jist fap.to it some act on it..bevause it is so taboo. .it doesn't take long.for me.to NoFap to come back and think nah not for me..it's a goddamn dude..

    All I'm.saying is it took me.a while of trial and error and failed no faps and exploring a.fetish to.the point of absolute certainty who I am and.what.this is..... To.finally.get on bored with the whole NoFap...and when.your mind is clear about who you are your.sexuality and what porn.does..well I guess hormonally you start to think differently when you NoFap..

    Just because you NoFap doesn't mean your a walking hard on
    That is where porn.has misconstrued expectations.

    It's simple.you start to see more attracted to more, fantisize and think more.and it directs you intune with your biological.imterests .

    But having sex stimulates your responsivenes .

    If your no fapping and doing nothing about anything your not acting.on.these interests , so you end up will.a.dulled responsivenes or.you need to.fap..

    Porn is opposite it overstimulates you especially if you've over watched . Then.your just apathetic.

    All.that is really happening.here is a change is functioning , connecting with your own mind and body .

    If you have your head around your porn intrests and the nature of porn.escalation it's easier to break.them.apart .

    I'm pretty self aware and my hormones are and have always been pretty high ..so I can.breakdown.whats going on within this 3 day period all of which is not present when fapping especially to the more extreme stuff.

    Of course it will take.a while followed by prolonged abstinence to.fully recover , but at the end of the day you actually need to transition to real sex otherwise your brain will just get used to not having sex and probably kill sex drive ..

    How do you think monks and priests after a period of years stay celibate of not.mollesting kids , you begin to lose it or you become depressed .


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  8. phwrancesco

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    Great! you have absolutely focus on 90, thats the real thing :))
     
  9. Tankless123

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    You can feel a difference after 3 days. It depends on how frequently you masturbate and how quickly you recover. I can personally attest to that since I’m on day 3. Same experiences as the OP.
     
  10. Wave tamer

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    I got into this genre after femdom, and actually started visiting the Ts escorts. Please don’t try it. It has messed my life up for 4 years now I’ve been to 5 or more counsellors and got myself into debt. I thought I was maybe Bi, but any masculine features bar the obvious repulsed me! What I learnt is that you’re turned on: Because of novelty, shock factor that produces adrenaline “ I shouldn’t be doing this!” They go the extra mile to be more feminine, also us blokes are obsessed with our penis like it’s our favourite toy. And there’s another reason to do with our ancestor monkey friends to do with sperm competition and seeing another male chimp erect would trigger an erection To compete in getting the female chimp pregnant. “Apparently”! I’m well passed worrying if I’m gay or Bi. The fact that it makes me feel so shit and sick afterwards and debate if my life’s worth living is proof that it’s not my taste. The shame and secrecy is a big part of what keeps addiction going. I’ve only just signed up on here and it’s great to hear other addicts/faptronaut stories. I’ve made it to 53 days hard mode before and just came off a 31 streak. But not giving in day one done. And pleased to meet you all.
     
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  11. MojoMaster

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    3 days is a good start. keep going :emoji_metal:
     
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  12. im_alive

    im_alive Fapstronaut

    The last counsellor I was, kind of shook her head in disbelief because I told her I would shake and sometimes go cold before acting out with an escort, especially if I was doing something new that I never had done before.

    I did not stay with her very long!

    I have done a lot of work around this, but have never associated adrenaline with the shaking, but now I see it and realise why its happening. Thanks for posting.
     
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  13. Wave tamer

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    No problem mate, it’s really good to be able to chat with people about it. Have a great day :)
     
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  14. Sovereign Soul

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    Don't drop your guard. Three days is not enough for a reboot and eventually you'll battle urges again. Sometimes they may even manifest in your dreams. Whatever happens, don't act out and test yourself. Good luck!
     
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  15. im_alive

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    Are you from the UK? - You wrote 'mate' - don't here that in here very often! I'm from the UK too.
     
  16. Wave tamer

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    Yea I’m from Birmingham:)
     
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  17. gingeralan

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    Very true! I’m from uk too
     
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  18. Wave tamer

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    Felt like acting out with a erotic massage earlier as feeling really tired and low. Managed to do a bit of work, now off to the gym for a steam room and stretching instead. Day 3 seems right back at the start. Unsettled sleep dreaming about acting out. Warm out battling this disease :(
     
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  19. SufferwithHope

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    Good on you staying strong! Even if you are on day 3, you still have all the progress you have made up until now. Yes, 90 days is the mark, but one relapse doesn't put your biology back at zero, just your streak counter.

    I had like about a 50 day streak and watched a little bit of P before putting my accountability app on my new computer. No O, which is hopeful.

    But, yeah man, what are your normal go tos for relief when you feel like acting out?
     
  20. Wave tamer

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    Thanks dude, 50 days is really good work nice one. And well done for having that strength to put your app on really impressive. I need to have a lot of locks on my devices to keep me safe. It can be really stressful when I’m trying to get on with normal jobs and get blocked out. But one day I will be free and strong enough to not have the urge.
    I like to do martial arts, gym, mountain biking, walking the dogs. But all that’s quite tiring and tiredness usually leads me to relapse, so need some more chilled self soothes. I should go to a Buddhist centre that really that helped me.
    How about you? :)
     
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