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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by jiovanni97122, Jan 27, 2020.

  1. jiovanni97122

    jiovanni97122 New Fapstronaut

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    hello guys im glad i found these forum because im just another victim of the porn industry who needs help.I am 22 years old and still virgin i had a lot of women who wanted me and showed it to me but i kinda felt them unattractive when thats not actually true so i turned of all them down so far.I masturbate mainly on porn but couple of months ago when i saw the nofap stuff i wanted to try how long i can ladt without masturbation so i stopped it for 1 whole month for the first time and during that time no porn as well but after that when i saw that i can actually do it i started again...So today im still here still virgin trying to figure out how to stop masturbatin and watching porn i just feel that if i have real woman naked in front of me thats not gonna make my dick hard because sometimes when i shower i try to madturbate without thinking about anything and without visual stimulation and its very hard for my penis to get hard and even if it gets its not as hard as when i watch porn.But for me i think im not that addicted to porn i dont pay for it i dont have hundreds of gigabytes ofnporn on my pc i just do it because the feeling is bettet with porn i think my strongest addiction is the masturbation itself.So its my 6day with no porn but i masturbated last night some photos in the tinder app so my question is can i just stop the porn and keep masturbating like 1 time a week is that still going to help me or i have to stop everything at all in order to make a progress?And now during this 6 days i feel my penis like dead i dont know why its just feels like there is nothing in the world that get it hard do you have the same feeling guys and what is it actually?Im working 90% of my time i dont spend a lot of time for fapping and porn to be honest but i literally ejaculate after 3 minutes of watching porn i do it 2 3 times and i just go to sleep.Its the first time that i share this so ill aprecciate any help that i can get btw sorry for my english i hope you guys can understand everything thank you
     
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  2. DWarrior

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    1. It's nearly impossible to get a "hard boner" without any sort of stimulation.
    (Whether it's a naked girl who stands in front of you or an image of a girl that you fantasize about)
    so, at this case you're totally fine. It has nothing to do with porn or masturbation.

    2. Yes, you can.
    But it depends on you.
    Try to take a whole week without fapping at all and then masturbate once and look how it effects you.
    You might feel a major change and you might not feel any change at all.
    It's called 'Trial and Errorr' (read about that)

    3. Yes, usually after I masturbate it takes a couple of days for my penis to recover.
    (It also takes some time for your body to produce sperm).

    Do whatever is good for you, good luck bro.
     
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  3. jiovanni97122

    jiovanni97122 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi bro thats what i did last week so mainly if indont masturbate for a week or more i start to feel that im more worried and stuff and then when i masturbate i feel some kind of relief and in thr next morning everything is fine im in a super good mood until the cycle starts again and now its been 3 days without fapping and i feel worried(that weird feeling in your stomach) and i feel like my head is under some kind of pressure.Btw i quit smoking couple of months ago and thats the moment when fapping problem got worse because i had to release my stress somehow so i started fapping everyday 4 5 times.So that feeling in my head that i got now is the same as the one i had when i wanted to smoke.And i feel just need to masturbate i dont feel the need to watch porn i can just go in tinder see some half naked pics of a nice girl and thats enough thats why i think my problrm is not with porn i think its with masturbating.So what do you think its best for me in this case to fap like 1 time a week or to stop until that feeling in my head fades away and i dont have a girlfriend too so that makes things even harder thank you.And btw you know that very nice feeling that tou get in your dick when u see a nice ass for example.I feel it all the time after 2 3 days without fapping and its very hard to stop myself so what do you think?
     
    Last edited: Jan 29, 2020
  4. Pedritovamos

    Pedritovamos Fapstronaut

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    Bien, igual que tú, tengo 20 años, no he visto pornografía durante 1 mes, es mejor dejar de verla, ya que seguramente cuando estás con una chica tienes disfunción eréctil debido a tu nivel de dopamina, el proceso de recuperación te llevará dependiendo sobre el consumo y, dado que comenzó años, generalmente dura entre 3 y 6 meses durante este período, puede ir a un psicólogo para recetarle algún medicamento para tener relaciones sexuales temporalmente, recién comencé, me tomó 1 mes y me da miedo el tiempo de duración pero si cada vez que ves porno necesitas imágenes más fuertes es un gran problema
     
  5. Keep going brother.Do what works for you.Experiment with it.If you want to do it once a week,do it.Maybe start becoming more spiritual and stuff.You will have a different higher approach to life.
     
  6. DWarrior

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    If it works for you and you don't see any negative effects from masturbation then do it.
    I've been clean from PMO for 30 days and I've also came to a conclusion to go back to masturbation in the next few days.
    (PMO has lead me to be hyperactive like **** , nervous, over-energized and way too horny lol)
     

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