How to get back arousal to real women?

Hey man!

Not sure what the circumstances are, but if you're just having casual/hook-up sex with randoms and strangers, you're never going to get that true passion and intimacy. Also you might still be projecting the "p-star" archetype onto the women you're sleeping with. My best advice would be to (if you're single) to get a girlfriend, and to not rush into sex. Spend time with her and gently get to know her and discover her true femininity. Experiencing this true feminine nature (without the pollution of pornography blurring your vision) will draw you closer to her and enable you to feel aroused by the true feminine (and not some porn-induced perception of women). Also you have to be present during sex, which means no fantasizing or projecting some other image onto the person you're sleeping with. If you do this you're basically just watching porn in your head and masturbating with someone else's body, and you'll never be able to re-wire your arousal towards actual women.