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Should I Move Out?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ronaldo Machuca, Feb 3, 2020.

  1. Feb 3, 2020 #1
    Ronaldo Machuca

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    Living in the place I am now with family members isn't working out. Not only that these hispanics a block or so away keep playing their music so loud almost every night. Should I call the police next time? They keep me up for so late that, the stress and lack of sleep is taking a toll on me. I got less than 5 hours today. or 4. I feel dreadful. I should have kept strong for one more hour but I relapsed. I could definitely reach a year no PMO pure, easily if I lived by myself with no loud neighbors. Peace and quiet just relaxes me but these people are so loud and annoying I legit would rather beat them up. I am considering just leaving everything here and moving on somewhere else. I don't know if living for free here is worth the toll on myself. PMO isn't even an issue to me as I am ridding urges easily but today's lack of sleep and stress really pushed me.
     
    Ronaldo Machuca, Feb 3, 2020
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  2. Feb 3, 2020 #2
    Navier

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    You just can't function properly with that amount of sleep, do what you have to but do find a way to sleep more. I'd advise trying ear muffs (if they aren't too uncomfortable), but if you can't block their music out sure call the police and report the musicians. You and your neighbors have a sacred right to sleep after all.

    I'd also suggest you avoid thinking patterns such as "if it weren't for them, if it weren't for that, I wouldn't relapse". While it may be true they are to blame for your lack of sleep, adopting that mindset simply makes you think your recovery depens on someone other than yourself.

    Remember that you've got this, don't ever convince yourself others can stop your journey if you don't allow them.
     
    Navier, Feb 3, 2020
    Navier, Feb 3, 2020
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  3. Feb 4, 2020 #3
    HegHeu

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    So I am in an almost similar situation plus added tension of threat which I may get I can't even enjoy a movie nicely at my place do tell me if u moved out of ur place as I am a coward it will motivate me. They say anything that interfer with ur day to day life is bad living as such is just waste of time and energy.
     
    HegHeu, Feb 4, 2020
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  4. Feb 6, 2020 #4
    Ronaldo Machuca

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    I am saving up for a new place. Honestly I do so much better when I am at peace. I can go outside more and relax. I lost my car so I need another one. I plan to move out this year. I am so done with people. I just want to live in like a nice place isolated. preferably in a northwest forest. Whenever I feel like relalpsing PMO, I always just want to peace out but I have no car. I will let you know.
     
    Ronaldo Machuca, Feb 6, 2020
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