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Had sex, but lack of sensation

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by I must do it, Jan 24, 2020.

  1. I must do it

    I must do it Fapstronaut

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    Hi there fellas, y-day I had sex, my dick was hard enough but I felt almost nth during 45 min sex, only about 5 min before ejaculating I started to feel sth, and I had to fantasize really hard bout my porn fetishes to cum:rolleyes: I tried in the past to get away from porn but failed every time....... Is this the desensitization of penis that I've read about?
     
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  2. Sounds like it, I suffered from delayed ejaculation which I attributed to a lack I'd sensitivity both in a physical and mental state.

    Cutting out the M helped to bring back the physical sensitivity, and dropping the P is sorting the mental side of it.

    I see your at Day 0 on your counter, how long have you gone previously with no pmo?


    From personal experience, after a couple of weeks I was able to have sex and O in a more sensible time. And now, 50-odd days in, we had a "quickie" the other day where we both lasted maybe 5 mins!! Haha. That's all the time we had.
     
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  3. I must do it

    I must do it Fapstronaut

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    Well, I did stay away from PMO for 3 months in 2018, but I gave up eventually.......I kindda live a stressful life and have no time for relationships and I do use PMO as an escape for daily problems........it's not like I stay locked inside my room and just do nth, I have a job but my stress comes from having big plans but little money :)) and I'm the kind of person that can't go half way , for me it's all or nth. I don't plan right away to stop PMO, but the time will come 4 sure, I know this shit's not good 4 me :(
     
  4. Can I be honest, and this may sound a bit blunt... you've got a lot of excuses for continuing to pmo but then complain about the side effects without seemingly being open to fixing the root cause.

    Do you want me sensation and enjoy sex with someone, or continue bashing then out and then struggle when you get some action?

    Busy job. Stressful life. Not enough time. Yeah, we all got those excuse if we wanted them.
     
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  5. I must do it

    I must do it Fapstronaut

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    Yh I know I sound kinda lame.........well I'll need a fresh start with everyting, not only quitting PMO, we shall see, the sooner the better :cool:
     
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  6. Younameit

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    bro you need to stop it definitely, quit porn forever
    you're rationalizing
     
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  7. I must do it

    I must do it Fapstronaut

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    Ok, I said I'd give it another shot, I'm clean for 11 days now, cravings bout all kind of porn fetishes come in mind asa I lay down in bed hopefully I am strong enough to overcome them
     
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