Some advice please.

Sounds like you're in and out of flatline like me, it takes time to heal.

Sometimes I'm rock hard in bed, others it takes time to get going. Just take things slowly, flatline for those of us in soft mode takes time..from what I've read, it can be like a yo-yo!

What new and adventurous stuff are you trying btw? Does it relate to your p0rn fetishes?

 

I've thought about taking some V when I'm at it too, just to boost things...but I've heard PIED is puely mental so I don't know if it would help at all.

Do you want to discuss the adventurous stuff in a private message? My wife and I have been trying new stuff too!

 

Okay man, it's upto you!

We can leave it there if you want. Besides, I have been getting slight urges today , don't wanna get triggered.

 

One of the problems with porn is that it present a fake image of sex. The fantasies are not realistic. They create an image of what we think sex is supposed to be like, but it's a lie. PIED is a problem because it creates expectations so that we can't be satisfied with ordinary, regular sex. The more I got away from porn, the less I thought about crazy scenarios. Real intimacy is found in being vulnerable with someone whom you love.

It takes time to detox from porn. When you do, even ordinary intimate physical contact will become exciting again.