My personal reasons to nofap

I’ve been on here for years now, and had various degrees of success. Seven months the longest some time back.

This time I’m going to list my own personal reasons to do this, so I can refer back to this first post whenever I struggle.

1. Enhances sexy time with the wife and sensitivity. If I fap I can struggle to orgasm, and it just feels so more sensitive the longer I’m on nofap.

2. Increases my productivity, energy and enthusiasm in work and with my family, as well as in my life in general. So I can earn more, be more active and generally have more zest for life.

3. Far less brain fog, my mind is sharper and more alert.

4. More confidence and self esteem around people, women in particular.

5. I wake up not feeling tired, but feeling fully energised.

I’m sure there’s loads more, which lll add in time.

Just seems pointless to fap for five seconds of pleasure, when I get it from the wife anyway, and then it’s far far better.

Let’s do this!

 

Day three..

Last night I was reminded why I’m doing this in part. The wife was lending a hand and I thought at one point I wouldn’t be able to finish. Luckily I did in the end, but I definitely need to be on this fully.

 

Day thirteen..

Things going along nicely. Did have a fleeting urge, but the thought of it reducing my sensitivity with my wife put me off. Plus the tiredness that comes afterwards, so fully on it still.

 

To remove the O part would certainly be a challenge. One day maybe, but not just now.

nife

 

Day 27..

I’m finding now, whether it’s because I’m getting a little older I don’t know, but especially when the wife lends a hand it takes a little longer to get fully erect. I don’t know whether this could be because I’m not fapping, or it’s just an age thing. But sticking with it as the O certainly are better when I get into it. I have no problem with oral or full on intercourse though.

 

Just a few hours after my last post I relapsed. I seem to have that urge that we all have, and even though I managed to ignore it several times I couldn’t get my thoughts off fapping.

I think I enjoyed looking through photos and videos more than the actual orgasm. Yes, that was nice, but only a fraction of a percentage how I feel like when my wife helps out.

It’s a beast to not masturbate at all, but I’ll get straight back on it, as I really enjoy the benefits of nofap greatly.