Is filrting, romanticized dreams considered as a RELAPSE?

hello , I think that over flirting is a step toward relapsing , flirting is fine as long as it is for a specific women who really attract you and really want you . a women who likes you too and does not have a problem flirting you and make a good relationship with you . otherwise ,flirting with every women attract you by her beauty is not right and can cause relapses because you are releasing your feelings and thoughts freely without controlling , which is a simulator of relapsing .
so in short , flirt your partner only .

 

Just my $.02 the flirtation and romantic interest is natural and where we are suppose to put our efforts, as long as it's healthy...just like @Porn Kämpfer said it's with a particular lady that expresses that interest in you. We're not trying to lay down with 100 women.

We're also not asexual (unless you are and that's cool too) Tens of thousands of years of nature course through your veins. Reproduction is hard to beat. Our problem is PMO is scratching that itch, not the real world natural way.

 

In my opinion flirting is ok since the whole point of rebooting to is to eventually have healthy sexual lives. But if dating and flirting are causing you to relapse then I would reconsider. Good luck my dude! Just take it easy with the ladies and show them what a wholesome man looks like.