A really weird experience

I was on Tinder a few days ago and i was chatting with a girl. She had some kinky pics in her profile. I had decided to ask her is she is in for sex, then ask for nudes to see what she looks like.

And this was a scenario playing in my head for a few hours. However, when i was going to text her, something inside me felt wrong about it and ididnt text her.

It wasnt cuz of respect for her or anything. It wasnt out of fear either. Idk what it was, i just felt its not worth it or maybe im not as desperate as i think.

 

That something is called intuition.

 

maybe its an unconscious thing that can really be identified

 

no its not similar. i couldnt hae gone to meet any girl at all cuz they all ghosted me.

 

@Andhira

1. Why are you so broken?
2. Would you like to have a relationship with someone who call himself subhuman?
3. G*d dammit, stop talking that sh*t about yourself.
4. I do not know you and I am pissed already.
5. You tried to cheat. You have used Tinder and hoped that everything will go just fine.

What you did not know is that Tinder is full of weirdos. Why do you think that they are on Tinder? Because nobody normal wanted them in the real life. Surprised? Well, don't be.

Weirdos behave weird. Deal with it. You can cry. You can scream. You can call yourself subhuman. It ain't gonna help you. You can pussy beg. You can PMO. It ain't gonna help you.

6. How, do I know that Tinder is full of weirdos? Well, I went on around 50-60 dates in couple of years. So It is not you. It is them. Most of the time. Is she hot but weird. Run. If they behave weird, they are weird. Simple. If they don't want you. Fine. If they lie to you. Cool. Nobody will ever have so much respect for you than yourself. It is simple. Life is simple. Don't overcomplicate things.

7. You have some work to do. You know what I mean. Why don't you go to see psychologist or maybe spiritual leader? Not trying to be offensive. They can help you to work through your issues. You are not bad person. You are not worthless person. You just have some stuff to go through. You can either wait and complain and you will be stuck in 1 place or you can do something about it.

8. What are you doing now is that you are bringing your bag of unhappiness and you expect that other people will fix it for you. People on dates are not supposed to fix your whole life. I am sorry. It would be great if they did. But they don't. Yep, tried that. They don't. They are not supposed to.

9. Join a gym, eat better, go for walk/run. You will feel better.

10. Don't use Tinder. Go and speak to real girls in real life. It can be tough. How, I know it. Well, I was once rejected by 25 girl during 1 night. My problem is that I was behaving like you do now. I mean, if you are sad, needy(hate that word), angry, it comes through. The best is to do it during the day and not in some shady bar. No, you don't go to strip bars to find love of your life. Sorry.

Own your problems, own them, analyse and fix them.

Jocko Willink (Navy Seal) has a podcast:

Start to watch it.

11. It seems to me that you have Daddy issues. Maybe you are from divorced family. Not your fault. Fix it!

12. Never, never call yourself subhuman ever again! Got it?

Now, stop crying and go for run or walk or do something physical.

 

i only bagan calling mysefl such after getting rejected a thousand times

i agree that using tinder was a mistake. im not good looking for it.

this reminds me of someone...

i barely got 3 mtches on my second tinder accoutn and they all ghosted me

i did this for 25 years bro

 

dude, you realize that im a virgin, dont ya? i dont rly undestand any of this. and jfl at your journy, i have thrice your streak

 

Some people stay virgins till Marriage.

There is nothing wrong about it. These people for example:



They look really happy. They are LDS (no sex before marriage)

Look, we are growing up in societies who frown upon virginity because some idiot said that virginity is not cool.

If it is just about virginity, then there is a way around it. The problem is that it is not.

When you were learning to walk as a kid. Do you know that you fall approximately 2000 times before you are able to walk. Imagine, you would speak up to 2000 girls to ask them out. Do you really thing that there would be nobody who would say yes.

I plan for success but rejection can be a teacher. If you take the lesson and learn from it, you cannot lose.

It is your mind. You are depressed. Everything seems like the end of the world. Ignore it. Emotions do not reflect the reality.

If you are sad, watch funny videos. Do some activity. Emotions are basically bad combination of chemicals in your brains. Change the emotions and you will be fine. Go for a walk, run go to the gym.

If you have some cash, why don't you hire a hot female trainer to coach you. I mean, she may not become your wife but you will get comfortable around girls like her. Baby steps...

and stop making excuses why it cannot work.

Start to make excuses why it will work.

 

they do it cuz of choice, a lot of men are forced to be virgins

yes to what? to sex? to going out with you?

this is the most low IQ thing i read in a while. there is no logic behind this at all.

 

and whats so funny? a lot of guys arent lucky to be born witht the right genes. i have been on incels and a lot of dudes there are legit very ugly and repulsive.

 

i have no idea tbh. i dont want to know and as you read in my post i didnt want to try either. i dont want to put myself in a sexual chat with a stranger. maybe if you know her irl and have had sex with her but not with a person i dont know

 

lmao if you believe this