My Exhibitionist Problem

Dude. I think you know the right answer to that question.

 

Yep - no brainer!

 

Just quit of that pleasure trap bro. You will become more and more hungry and addicted to doing that. Just quit your old habit and don't watch this kind of porn like that anymore, otherwise, your brain will be wired and you wanna try out more sort of these non-sense things.

 

If you have respect or love for your g/f then the answer is obvious.

Get your head in the game. Is she the most important thing to you or is your fetish more important?

Also, ask yourself this question. Are you willing to both take a chance on getting caught and placed on the sexual offenders for yourself and your girlfriend? Because if you and your girlfriend were to get caught being indecent in public, you'd both go on "the list". That is is forever, you and she would never be able to get a job or live anywhere that you weren't required to hand out flyers to every neighbor to let them know a person on "the list" was living in that neighborhood.

More importantly, your girlfriend would forever have the mark of Cain and live like a homeless person.

So, it's a very simple choice. Either work this program, find help from a qualified therapist if needed and treat your girlfriend with respect or let your fetish win out and most likely lose your girlfriend. Even if you do convince her to have risky sex, you'd be endangering her to a life of ridicule and scorn.

 

Especially now that you have recognized that this is a problem, you are going to have to deal with it in your life sooner or later. I can't stress enough how much better it will be for you if you hit this problem hard right now to overcome it, instead of continuing purely for the sake of pleasure and creating a bigger issue in the future.

 

If you don’t drop the old way (pre real sex) in some years from now you’ll have a police record because the threat of being caught will happen and you’ll be a registered sex offender or you’ll be just an old sad guy with no human companion.
Go for the real thing and find a way through this. Good luck.

 

Whether this is your dream girl or not... drop the fetish. It will only bring you pain.

Since I’ve started nofap, my fetish has dimmed immensely. It’s been slow. But I think about it less and less often. It’s nice. Really nice.

If you are really into this woman and want to drop that fetish. Explain your situation to her, perhaps try asking her to check in on you every now and then to see if you’ve made progress with nofap. (If this would even be beneficial to you).

But it all boils down to you. Do you wanna be an adrenaline junkie with the possibility of getting caught and not only ruining your life, but her life too?

Take that how you will. May the odds be in your favor.

 

Been there done that. It got the point where I would go outside...not to be seen, but the "risk" of being seen was such a rush. But I didn't really want to get caught deep down inside because I knew the consequences.