Sex without orgasm

I've done this a few times with my wife too! Makes me all cuddly and loved up afterwards, and full of energy!!

 

It works for me too. I get much more pleasure myself from the sustained attention to my body and hers of slow sex. Although we keep things cool for the both of us. My wife enjoys the slow journey as well and doesn't like the focus being on orgasm. I used to be so obsessed thinking that if I did give her orgasms I was a successful lover, rather than recognising it was my overall attention to her in and out of bed which really shows my love.

 

Glad you are enjoying sex with out male O - it's often referred to as Karezza.

My wife and I are currently alternating between periods of karezza and normal sex. I definitely enjoy it and find that when I do O regularly, I begin to fall back into bad habits and stop focusing as much on my wife. My arousal is also a lot higher when I abstain for a while.

It's odd but I appreciate karezza when I'm doing it but I feel reluctant to go back to it after Oing for a while. I've just started another stint of 'hard mode' so we will see how it goes.

 

Is it not super painful to get so worked up and then not O?

 

Not for most men. The whole 'blue balls' thing is rather exaggerated. It can happen sometimes but the story that men have to orgasm every time they have sex is a myth. I wonder who could have started it?
ANH

 

1 day streak meanwhile i have a 1.5 year streak and i havent even kissed a girl