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Is it a good idea to tell a girl about PIED?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by magic05, Jan 27, 2020.

  1. magic05

    magic05 Fapstronaut

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    So I didn't have sex for 6 years and am terribly afraid of PIED. I almost had sex 4 months ago with a girl, but I couldn't get it up. She didn't like that and I never heard from her again. That made me even more afraid of sex. I'm on day 19 of nofap.

    I'm currently seeing a girl that I really like and maybe it will get serious soon. I was thinking to outright (right before it comes to sex) simply tell her that I struggle with PIED, but I don't know whether that's a good idea, maybe it would scare her off?

    Alternatively, I got a prescription from my doctor for ED drugs. I know they work well and I could use them for the first sex without telling the girl anything about my PIED.

    So my question: did you ever tell a woman that you suffer from PIED? What was her reaction? What's the best way to tell it? Is it a good idea to be so honest?
     
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  2. 4eyedfox

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    FUCK NO Unless you are married it will come back and bite you in the ass.
     
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  3. TheJetDude44

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    Im in the same situation dude. I got some boner pills prescribed to me and have had sex using them. I never told these girls I had PIED and just had sex and never really pushed for a relationship. Naturally they notice you just want to have sex and loose interest. That being said before I got the pills I had two instances when I did tell the girls about my PIED and both times I told them was after we tried to have sex and it didn't happen. One told me that it would have been better if I told her before sex because not being able to get hard for her made her feel really bad about herself. The second one didn't really make a big deal about it in the moment and was speechless because that had never happened to her so she really didn't know what to say. I could tell tho she had lost interest in me because the following days we texted less than we had before that night. She eventually told me that she wasn't interested in a relationship and that it was best that we move on, obviously it was a nice way of saying I dont like you anymore. But from those experiences I have learned to tell them before hand so that they dont feel bad about themselves and so that its not a surprise or disappointment. Think about it, if you thought you were about to have sex and were very horny and excited for it to and have it just stop so that they could tell you its not going to happen, how would that make you feel? Good luck to you and hope this helps!
     
  4. phwrancesco

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    It's a terrible idea.
     
  5. phwrancesco

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    I've been in your EXACT same shoes.

    Didn't have sex for almost 5 years. Then i got into my first streak, was super super motivated. At day 86 i had a chance to have sex and took it without even thinking about it, i was too horny to have other concerns like ED or others.

    So my advice: if you're strong enough to push your body to the limit you'll probably succeed and forget about this problems.

    If you keep relapsing every 10-20 or 30 days is almost like you're doing nothing, couse you're not pushing your limits.
     
  6. Kligor

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    I would never told a girl that i have PIED,my opinion.
     
  7. Nuallann

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    Yeah, don't do that. Women gossip, and they have no frame of reference for understanding what actually causes arousal in men. So they'll either feel insulted/ugly when a guy can't get it up, and handle that by either getting depressed about it, or cover those feelings up by talking the guy down to her friends. Most just think "he likes me, so he should be hard", no thought is given to the complex nature of what produces an erection in males.

    Save yourself the emotional BS, handle your condition without her, talk with guys who understand on boards like this. Last thing you need is to be trying to overcome PIED, while dealing with some girl running you down as a porn addict. We men understand, as weird as that sounds, we're the first generation in a long time where men can talk to each other about this kind of stuff, at least online.
     

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