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Some people are okay not having a partner. I personally could not do it myself but I don't really know because I've never had a girlfriend - I might hate it and learn that being alone is the best thing for me. It's okay to appreciate the small things. Why not enjoy talking to a girl? Take it from me, women aren't up on an 'alter', they're just normal humans like you and me no matter how strange they seem to us.

 

First, we all can get a partnert. The reason we dont have now is that there are too much self-hatred or self-loved in us(check youtube channel the school of life, i learned many from it).
Never give up on something(if you really want it). This motto applies to NFap and to real life as well
In the past, i pedestalized girls. But after knowing some, i think they female are basically the same as male. They can be jealous, selfish, mean... All of them are (bad but necessary for surivival) characteristics. And of course, there are good ones too. We are all mere humans, struggling in this suffering world.
Alone or not. That is your choice. And by choice, you can choose again anytime if you are not satisfied with it. I chased a girl, and when it seemed we were not compatible, i stopped(ok, let:s be honest she didnt like me lol )
Married people use porn. So being alone is not the reason we rely on porn in the first place. Sometimes it is hard to do 2 big projects the same time (quit P and have a relationship). Quit PMO first, and get a girl latter sounds good to me.

 

There is your issue , once your start dating you will realize there human to NEVER PUT ANYONE ABOVE YOU work on your SELF ESTEEM .

 

Far from it. Putting women on an altar is never a good idea. THAT is the actual recipe for disaster, because disappointment will be inminent. They're humans, just as flawed like you and me. What you mention is certainly not a problem. I understand many of us wish for a partner, i started being honest with myself in that i would like one, but also know that being single is not the end of the world like many of us have believed at some point.

 

You shouldn't approach it like this. Everyone is worthy to have a girl and there is someone for everyone. You should however not worry about being single but rather focusing on as many ways possible to improve yourself physically and mentally. You should still attempt to talk to as many girls as possible because you never know where it could leave. "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"-Gretzky. Sometimes the universe will work its magic and put 2 people in the right spot