Should I try being friends with ex-girlfriend? :/

I honestly think that girl has nothing for you except a lot of suffering and pain. She treated you like nobody should treat anyone, let alone their supposed boyfriend. Probably she wanted to get together with another guy, but that didn't work, and she wants some attention, so turns to the sucker for a plan B. Who is you...in this case. Sorry.

 

I got entangled in a somewhat similar situation for 3 years. Once she wanted me, next time she didn't. Then wanted me again, then she changed her mind. And I was dancing as she was whistling. It was hell. Sure it hurts a lot, but you still spare yourself a lot of pain if you just say no. At least that is my two cents.

 

I've been there. It is hell.

I know it's easier said that done but you can't chase women. You have to make them chase you.

I know I know. I'm still trying to figure out how to do that myself. But I do think it's possible.

 

You have to chase the right women. This isn't her. Make room for someone new and loving to come into your life by getting rid of her and working on yourself. What would make you chase after a woman who has treated you so badly? What would make you want to be friends with someone who has this kind of potential for mistreating you? In the answers to these questions you will find all the answers you need to know to move on and get into a healthy respectable relationship with someone who truly cares for you.

 

It's always like that when finally you realized you started moving on the past calls you back. Be rational does she really deserve you?! If you get back together would really forgive her for what she did without any resentment? !?

 

We're here dude!✌☺

 

Google Corey Wayne.

 

Do you want to know what happend? It's really straight forward:

Dude, you killed the #1 rule of attraction: confidence. The thing to understand is that women are not attracted to who you are, but to what you do. They like, better - love, guys who do something. I don't care if that's making music, furniture or even working in corpo - as long as you're passionate about it and that's what really matters . Having a hobby, a plan for your life and sticking to it. This is the highest value you can show just by labeling your life the most important thing, which nothing else can change.

You say you left everything. So why would she desire you anymore? She knew you would give her everything in a heartbeat, cause you sacraficed your whole life plan. You become a... provider.

And here we are again. Remember what I said about rule #1? You showed her that you have more important things to do than worrying about her ass. The core of attraction I would say.

Well, take my advice: learn from this situation as this knowledge will propably save you later. Imagine that you've married her. 50% of your belongings would be hers, cause she got bored with you. Start working on yourself(lifting is the single most important thing you can do), find a thing you're passionate about and stick to it - lebel it #1. Oh, and when it comes to her, just forget about it. She showed that she has no respect to you, easy choice - radio silence.

 

From experience, i can tell you that once a girl who is that much close to you changes, there's nothing in the world that you can do to convince her anyhow to be how you want her to be. Its going to end everytime in the same way, fighting and yelling or just ignoring. You should let her go, and work on yourself. There's 6 billion people on this planet, and life's just not over yet.
Still, if you think your relationship needs another kick, first things first; stop being desperate. Let her be the desperate one and try to win YOU back, because letting her know that you can walk away if you want is one of the biggest attraction boosters for any woman. You should do the things you did when you first attracted her, be the attractive guy, and let her do the patch up. Itll be worth it. Trust me. I am in the same boat as you.

 

I agree with Phibz & Verhart. you should see Corey Wayne videos on youtube, read his free ebook about attraction and dating
(I'm gay but I still get some valuable insights from him.)

 

Walk a way from that girl and never look back I know everyone's situation is diiferent and I actually wish it was that simple for me.......but my viewpoint no kids?.......no problem just something too keep in mind.

 

I was kinda In a similar spot, girl I was dating told me she was also in it for the long run, and really got my hopes up that we'd be together for a while. fast forward to a few weeks later, we hadn't talked much so I asked if she still liked me. She said she was starting to like me more as a friend, and that just broke my heart man. I think the worst part is that I don't really know why she stopped liking me, it hurts like hell and I still don't know how to respond to it all. Haven't talked to her in a few days and might just keep it that way

 

Keep strong guys. The sea is full of fish

 

My opinion is that any relationship that warrants paragraphs on an online forum of strangers is a relationship not worth it.

Just my opinion.

 

No you are not at fault. She was the idiot. I have nothing against Corey Wayne (never heard of him) but to say that you are flawed and need to change is the wrong mindset here.