Tools to Success - 24hrs @ a time

My friend,

Your question is a common one. I used to pray all the time that God would take away any sexual drive that I had so I didn’t have to deal with all of this. But having a sexual drive is part of being human. You must learn how to find peace and calmness inside of yourself. I know that sometimes you feel like you want to climb the walls. But I promise you with the right mindset and the right tools you will learn that you can manage yourself. And you will be able to have a healthy sexual relationship with your future spouse and it will be of so much richer then anything else.

 

Great 24hrs

 

Great 24hrs

 

Okay, first off I love how real you got. That is the good stuff. But now it is my turn to be real. I was the definition of a loner I have been so emotionally screwed up for so long that it was my normal. But my friend I wish I could give you a hug and then slap you. Because I want you to know that I care but that I mean business.

Our lives are defined by us. Every day we wake up and tell ourselves a story about ourselves. These “stories” are not filled with facts they are filled with ideas that we tell ourselves about facts. Examples
Fact: Not everyone finds me attractive
Story: I’m not attractive to anyone.
Other possible story: There are women that find me attractive.

I am calling your thoughts out on there bull crap. I challenge you to wake up everyday look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself the following statement. Zig Ziglar’s power statement. Listen to or read the book The power of positive thinking.

No one is better then you, no one deserves more then you. But you must put in the time and effort to “convince yourself” of that.

You are an incredible child of God. You can do this!!!

 

I have had a great week. You can do this.

 

Quick update: I have been doing fantastic as of late. No P for coming up on 30 days. I did have an M reset yesterday. But considering everything, I am really proud of the progress that I have made and am making. Success never comes overnight. It comes from consistent efforts and small victories.
It is going to be a fantastic 24hrs

 

Good 24hrs, it is great to have your support. How are you all doing?

 

Had a good 24hrs. Knowing that I was going to get on here and share with you guys really helped me. I hope you are all crushing it. I keep replaying some P in my mind and I need some tools to help me pull back my thoughts in those moments. Thoughts suggestions?

 

Good 24 hrs. Looking forward to tomorrow

 

Had a good 24hrs it sure feels good to have your support.

 

Hey man, I would encourage you to
1. Stay strong
2. I know that thoughts come and go, but you must learn to let go of the thoughts. Gritting you’re teeth and Fighting is like saying “don’t think of a pick elephant” you mind can’t help but focus on it. Instead acknowledge the thought and take a breath and just let it go. It’s just a thought let it go.

 

Good 24hrs