I never have wet dreams

weird. whats your longest time you retained

 

no biggie. I know multiple such people. Keep going. Virtue is on the path, not staying on the path.

 

I usally addicted to hairjob, hair tie, and see beautiful hair in instragram. I escaped from that kind of masterbation and it’s 23rd day challenged. I wanna be escaping like i will tie hair on my Penis till morning without ejaculation. How should I practice it ? From when? I am not like porn so much. But generally i am too horny , even i do exercise walking everyday two hours. Tell me a way of being a pro of semen retention or building a healthy penis. Should i tie hair on penis without ejaculatory practice or see Hair play, Hairgoal type video and erect as much as can the no touch? Beautiful girls who are my enemies. I fighting with their beauty always.
Thank you.

 

I'm 49 years old, 137 days no PMO, and I've had 1 WD in that span (on day 128), and I was surprised that I even had one. I never expected it at 49!

 

Believe me or not, I haven't got wet dreams til now, 71 days NoFap hardmode with no relapse, because I woke myself up when I was experiencing while it was going on. Interesting how you can influence yourself if you believe hard enough to stay strong.

 

Yes, in my experience this is a matter of mindset, lifestyle, and stimulation (thoughts, edging).
If you believe that your semen is precious and want to keep it anyway to feel energized you will be more prompt to wake up before orgasm during a dream.

When I was cheating by edging on soft pictures without ejaculation or losing myself in sexual fantasies I was experiencing wet dreams more.

If I'm not redirecting energy towards activity, if I'm indulging with the wrong diet, sugar and alcohol, wet dreams tend to occur more.

I saw people here saying that by circulating sexual energy in the whole body by yogic practices it's possible to avoid the stagnance of the energy in the genital area which ultimately leads to nocturnal emissions. I tend to believe in this but I have no experience on the subject, just saying.

 

I never have WDs neither. I think it was because I started M early in life and never gave a chance for it to build up.

 

even if it builds up with proper practice you become healthy and regulated on all levels and will be pure like children. even surpass them.

 

If your objective is to no longer have this fantasies, you should abstain from ANY type of contento that arouses you in this manner. That means no looking at hair pictures, avoiding barber shops, if your own hair arouses you, SHAVE IT OFF. Any type of stimulation from this fantasy will only make the process longer. You should even try to stop yourself from fantazising. The urges will come for sure, but it's up to your mind to follow them.

 

Damon's experience is interesting to me as well. I similarly don't have wet dreams. (just one when I was about 30 years old) My urologist says that a lack of wet dreams indicates that my body is reabsorbing the semen satisfactorily and therefore ejaculations are unnecessary for me.

 

I've never had a wet dream in my life. I started masturbating at four years old, so I guess that's why...

 

Marcus, I am sure you are right. I think wet dreams are a function of both how often you masturbate as well as the body's ability to absorb the semen. My urologist further explains to me that unless I am trying to make a baby, my body is telling me NOT to ejaculate.....it's taking care of itself and needs the reabsorption.

 

Interesting words!. You are right. Most people are stuck in this inertia for years, they cannot even practice mental celibacy and their bodies are so tuned into their genitals they believe wet dreams, boners and all that stuff is normal, as if they haven't been children themselves and have never seen a child in their whole life!

 

Well said JoJo. If, like children, we could just leave things alone, we'd be in much better shape.

I freely admit, though, that I have failed in this regard. So I am not wagging a finger, but sympathetic.

 

That's my story, too. 45 years old and had one wet dream last year on day 130.

. . . though I did have one the year before at about day 30 when I was extremely triggered and that one was the first one I had had since I was a teenager

 

No way. You should stay away from any kind of artificial sexual stimulation. Once you get back to your natural, baseline state, then you can work out what's right for you. Until then, you are still hyperstimulated and you can't make any rational judgement.

 

Absolutely right.