The needy clingy inner beta male still lingers.

I know exactly what you are going through, most men become afraid of being rejected or think of how a female will react when trying to start a conversation. I have realized that it has to be natural, its extremely hard to talk to a random stranger with a topic. You can always smile when walking past one but starting a conversation has to have a pretext. This is totally a different story if you are on a dating website or something. Just the other day I forced myself to get a girls number from my boxing class, it was extremely hard for me and I thought about how to go about it for almost a month. I realized that geez we both workout at the same place and sometimes even partner up, as long as I start talking to her about our workouts we have something to always talk about and build off of. This can be used for any scenario, as long as you find something in common to talk about your set.

 

It is because you do not love yourself enough. You get needy and desperate because you seek woman to fulfill something inside you. Loving yourself should be your greatest priority over anything. Once you do you become a beacon rather than a fly clinging for the light. Trust me I had these experiences of getting needy. Girls would leave and I would be broken for months. Its only when I started loving myself, that my neediness changed. Why do you think you get nervous in front of hot girls? You put them over yourself. They are too hot, you lowkey think you are not good enough. When you love yourself, you dont get nervous or choke because it doesnt matter what happens in the end because guess what you are the greatest. You are the main priority not the hot girl.

 

So what exactly is your question?

How to kill/overcome/replace/avoid an inner part of yourself?
How to break the ice and be the smoooooooooth, confident talker?
How to rotate through women and have them chase after you instead of you having to make the first move to begin with?

Each question in and of itself deserves a lot of brain power but I don't have all day. So what's most important to you?
Or I can give you my quick and dirty opinion on all 3 of them

 

Sometimes, I think this kind of thing isn't supposed to be this complicated. I think PMO just makes this way more complicated than it actually is. I can't confirm because I'm still fighting, but I think a lot of this stuff will get really easy once the addiction is taken care of.....maybe? Can anyone confirm?

 

its how you are. you cant change it. im sorry

 

Ok, blackpill.

 

Same here. And again, I blew with a great girl again (and fall in love) for the same reason. I wasnt smooth and relaxed, I was too needy and wanted everything right now. And she just stopped responding.
It was in the middle of my rewire, we managed even to have a nice sex twice.

 

Bro you hit it on the fucking spot