Accountability for All

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by corylife, Dec 22, 2019.

  1. testjones11

    testjones11 Fapstronaut

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    Great video - thanks @Imwithyoum8!
    Day 1 almost complete and it was not too bad. I just keep getting these sexual thoughts in my head and cannot get rid of them.

    Stay strong all!
     
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  2. that dude

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    Haven't posted in a while but that was no good idea, relapsed a lot in the last two weeks. Really need to be in this thread.
    So, day 3.
     
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  3. maxim

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    Hey guys, I need a group so I am here.. So I relapsed today, go figure, it was Day 1 on my second attempt. Before that I was on Day 5. I just kept peeking at sites. It's depressing how weak I feel. I'm here for some help, and here to help if I can. I can't allow that inch of temptation to grow anymore. No more looking at porn man, straight up, the inevitable follows it always does.
    God dangit, I didn't keep myself as busy as I should have today.
    Well, tomorrow is another day, right? I will be reporting here every day.
     
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  4. iwillchange97

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    Now it's 48 hours of no PMO. I'm off to a good start. Cravings here and there but I'm getting accustomed to a nofap lifestyle. I'm getting used to not masterbating as often!
     
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  5. blahblahblah100

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    Day 2 done. Still pretty depressed. Urges strong. Just crumbling along. Hopefully it gets better
     
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  6. Imwithyoum8

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    Yes the urges will be at the peak in the first 2-3 days and the BEST way is to get out of the house. Go shopping if you have to, gym, library or even catch up with your friends so you can get it of your mind.

    If urges get high at night place your laptop/phone in a place that is difficult to reach making it harder for you to get it.
     
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  7. Imwithyoum8

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    Day 3 - Morning ----------- Less brain fog - managed to get some morning stretches in


    Morning urges have disappeared - keep urself busy

    Watch NoFap success videos and stories to motivate you every day

    We got this boiiiiiiiiiiiis
     
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  8. Imwithyoum8

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    ------------------------------------------HOW TO BLOCK PORN FROM COMPUTER------------------------------------------------

    This is by far one of the strongest methods and you must do it accurately

    1. Sign up for OpenDNS. If you want to filter what can and cannot be seen on the Internet, you can use OpenDNS. Schools and government offices use it, and free options are available.

    2. Create an account. Once your account is created, set your internet settings to use the OpenDNS IP addresses as your domain name servers. You will then be able to customize your filter preferences


    **Important to use the OpenDNS IP address
     
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  9. Darth_vader33

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    Hi guys I have been fighting this since December I relapsed many times, it feels terrible, but I needed to change, it seems very difficult, because your mind tells you to do it and you do not want to do it, it is a constant struggle. A few weeks ago I went to an academy to learn English, since then I don't have much time, this helped me a lot, because the usual thing was PMO in the afternoon, but now I'm in class, I also try to get out as much as I can (I used to hate leave my house) Although everything seems to be going well the temptations continue, but now I try to remember how I felt when I did it (very badly), I also think about What kind of person I want to be. Guys take care of something, replace that time of day that they did PMO with something else, go for a walk, do sports, let's continue fighting.
     
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  10. testjones11

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    You're right Imwithyoum8. When I start getting the urges, I should get away from my situation and go out.

    I had to reset this morning. I have noticed a pattern of PMO the next day after a night of drinking. So having said that, I will stop alcohol for a month and see how my journey goes. Does anyone else feel the same about alcohol and PMOing?

    I wrote down a few notes to follow when the urges come on:
    • Stop and Meditate
    • Go for a walk
    • Listen to music
    • Take a selfie - tell yourself that you can get past this. I guarantee that you are not smiling in the photo and if you are it's most likely fake.
    • Banana - believe it or not, the dopamine in bananas helps
    • Exercise
    Stay strong all!
     
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  11. semloh kcolrehs

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    Day 3 and 4 done! Keeping myself busy and occupied so I'm focused on work.
     
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  12. But this is not going to solve the problem its just covering it up.The goal is to be able to refuse watching porn
    even though you can do it anytime.
     
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  13. Manhoodman

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    Back to day 1, I just relapsed
     
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  14. If you don't mind me asking what caused your relapse
     
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  15. sionpul

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    Right now, I'm a scumbag. My eyes are closing and in few minutes, I'll sleep so deeply and then I'll wake up like shit. I have reached a stage where I don't know why I masturbate. I just do it. I'm like a junkie, I need my dose. Sometimes, I don't want to do it but I just do it. I used to be so productive, so energetic. I've become a procrastinator, a useless fellow. I'm ruining my life for few seconds of pleasure..
     
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  16. maxim

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    Day 1: Almost done.
    Not bad urges today, just mentally telling myself, "No peeking mf, not today!" when the thought arose really helped. Went for a few walks, cold shower in the morning, prayed, read a bit, listened to music, cleaned up the suite a bit, went for lunch with the mother, made a bit of cash selling video games, spent less time on the web looking at pointless shit..
    Feels good.
     
  17. iwillchange97

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    Day 3 complete. 72 hours solid with no PMO. I'm building momentum now. There are cravings, but after getting accostumed to PMO only once a week, it's not too bad. Only this time, I'm going 2 months no PMO, and giving up PM permanently.
     
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  18. 2nd 24 hour shift of nofap. I better figure it out now.
     
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  19. Manhoodman

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    Was out partying the previous day, woke up with a hangover and started self sabotaging ended up watching porn and faping
     
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  20. BigLo51192

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    Just finished day 8. Almost failed today but pulled through. I am starting to wonder if I am in the beginning of a flatline. I've been tired, unmotivated and depressed these past few days. Either way I will push forward.
     
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