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A decade of ruining myself

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Almost quitter, Mar 7, 2020.

  1. Almost quitter

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    Hello guys I'm new here..

    I was introduced to porn when I was in class XIII. At that time it was like, "why I didn't watched it before, it's so satisfying." I used to watch porn whenever I was alone, in fact I preferred to be alone so that I can watch porn rather than interacting with my siblings. Soon after that, I was introduced to sex stories. Incest become my fav genre in videos and stories. I know many of you are not going to believe me but I really ended up f*****g one of my cousins. Slowly this thing started ruining myself. As I was a brilliant student before, I started to lack concentration. I started to skip my studies for porn. I ended up ruining my career. I became so addicted to incest that I tried to seduce almost all cousins of mine and ruined my image as well. As now I'm married, but the situation is that I find masturbation more satisfying than real sex. I've masturbated next to my sleeping partner while reading sex stories. Still I'm interested in incest more than anything else.
    But now I'm really fed up of my this behavior. I want to get rid of these habits. I want to get clean.
    Help me out guyz!!
     
  2. Arghy

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    Keep strong man and begin a 90 day porn free marathon :)
     
  3. CodeTalker

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    I know plenty of cousins that married each other. I don’t put it at the same level as brothers and sisters.
     
  4. Prince6543

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    Well That's Easy
    You know that your interest is Porn induced. Don't you?
    So just stop watching porn and make out with your wife whenever you feel horny.
     
  5. Exit To Freedom

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    Easier said than done, but the best option. Keep coming back here every day and sort this out.
     
  6. Prince6543

    Prince6543 Fapstronaut

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    Best and the only option.
    Let's do a deal. Atleast you accept that it's a option. Then why not Try this out. It's always fun to try something you never did.
     
  7. Boxerito

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    It is not natural to consider porn more stimulating than real sex, but it is possible due to sexual conditioning. Same happens with your incest tastes, it is pure conditioning. Consider that sexual conditioning=addiction, acting on the same cells, same circuits, same neurotransmitters. Identical.

    I suggest to start by understanding your addiction.

    Please listen to the following podcast.

    https://endsexualexploitation.org/articles/podcast-is-internet-porn-addictive/
     
  8. Many popular sexual acts are the result of pure conditionning derived from porn . I think 30 years to 40 years ago , sex consisted mostly of coitus (PIV) and every other form was considered either taboo or abnormal, including the so encoureaged anal or oral sexualities, as well as fetishes like BDSM or humiliation "kinks" . these are all the product of conditionning done by the dominant liberal culture and the porn industry, to know what is the most natural and innate form of sexuality we need to observe other creatures, from primates to felines to every other mammal in order to differentiate between the spontaneous act of copulation and all the imitations that were created by societal influence and conditionning.
     
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  9. Boxerito

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    Exactly. You can check Brody articles, he is an expert on this topic and whose research consistently proves PVI (coitus, penil vaginile intercourse) is the only sexual practice that leads to physical and psychological health benefits. Anal, masturbation or other practices besides coitus actually have negative correlations with these health benefits.

    Just think of it in terms of evolution. Do you think that facials or anal were adaptive? Only PVI, so this is where natural selection put the pressure, and thus, the benefits of sex. Do not let porn condition your sex template and decrease your sexual life satisfaction, do a healthy sex/pleasure favour to yourself.

    Check for yourself:

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...benefits-of-different-sexual-activities-2010/
     
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  10. I always thought that unnatural practices had negative correlations on sexual health. But why do they focus more on anal and not oral ? I think this practice is just as bad and negative on health , right ?
     
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  11. This is a very rich article, stating what is obvious and fact to any person who hadn't been infuenced by liberal and porn cultures.
     
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  12. Boxerito

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  13. Yes oral practices are related to STIs despite being done with a non-infected partner. Our genitals house bacteria that helps protecting our sexual health, but are hazardous if ever they reach another body part ; especially the mouth or the eyes.
    I couldn't have summarized the whole problematic better than how you did.
     
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