[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Day 1

Going to try and take every day as day 1 in the sense of not letting pride build up....as soon as I feel confident in a steak that is where I put my guard down. We are only one action away from relapse at all times. I want to be confident in my ability to stay away from porn whilst staying humble and on guard!

I am researching therapists in my area too... I want to be able to deal with my emotions in a healthy manner rather than using porn to numb myself.

 

Day 4 of this streak, in which my focus is to increase self love and thus eliminate the reasons for PM.
I joined this forum 126 days ago. Of those 126 days, I was 116 days without PM.

 

I have to tell you, it really sounds like she's not into you in the same way that you are into her and you should let it go. You've tried to win her over, but she's said multiple times that she doesn't love you back. That's it. It happens. I know it's hard, but you have to respect her wishes.

I'm sorry, but this is really not the right approach. You shouldn't keep waiting for her to do what you want. You should accept that you're not the one for her. A huge part of doing NoFap in my opinion, maybe the most important part of all, is learning that women are not objects that exist for our pleasure or to fill up some void in our life. They're human beings and have to respected in that way.

Imagine how it would feel if a girl that you're not into keeps going after you for a year and keeps insisting she's the one for you even though you feel otherwise. It would be very hard, especially if she's a friend and you don't want to hurt her feelings. So stop putting her into that position.

And just to clarify, I've been in your position a LOT of times and went through many depressions over girls not loving me back. Until I realised it was never their job to love me and make me happy. It's our job to love ourselves and to give love to others. And then we will receive love back, probably from someone else completely. Work on yourself and happiness will come.

 

Long time since my last post. Hope you're guys doing well. Been busy and forgot to post, but holding strong in the challenge. 53 days.

 

Day 29 about to end. Tommorow I will be doing day 30. Another milestone to be completed

 

30 days, a first month! That's huge man! Good luck!!!

 

Today is the best day in my life so far. I stopped feeling depressed. Am super motivated, am focused. In control of my sexual urges and emotions.
I was creating happiness from within I didn't need to be around my friends or anyone. I was just happy and smiling as I was walking and doing my academics.
Infact I talked with her today and i left her shocked how much confidence I have gained. Am even more impressed in myself cause today I was like a tiger. I was on fire. My moods were fine, my eyes where showing joy and happiness. Not sadness and depression.
Thanks you Nofap. And every one in this family.
And am getting all these positive results on day thirty. What about when I reach day 60 then 90. But am taking it one day at a time. Just observing my self. And writing down some affirmations. To increase myself love. And faith in my actions.

 

Sounds like you are flogging a dead horse, my friend. If she rates you at a 6/10, then she is not interested and just stringing you along for the attention. I suggest you dump her and move on to someone who thinks you are a 10/10....because you are ... in the right person's eyes!!!

 

Day 1/90 No PM
Day 410 at attempting this challenge
Day 140 weight training (M, W, F)
Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, desserts and alcohol

 

Checking in day 13, my urges and sexual fantasies increase, I can feel the tension in my genitals and I know, I've been there before that this means the deamon is creeping on me. Time to start with physical activities like running or something. I must say that with increase of sexual tension I feel more energy.
I say no to PMO, day at the time.

 

2 days. Keeping busy lately. Trying to make some positive changes. Started exercising again. Cut back on tv, and reading more. Learning to cook some new recipes so maybe can eat better. Developing myself spiritually, trying to get into a daily meditation routine. I think it's important, when you cut the PMO out of your life, to replace that lost time/energy with productive goals.

 

Day 10/90 check in

 

Day 48

 

Day 2!

 

Day 5 of this streak, in which my focus is to increase self love and thus eliminate the reasons for PM.
I joined this forum 127 days ago. Of those 127 days, I was 117 days without PM.

 

Day 0/90

 

Day 3 No M,
Day 73 No P

Hopefully I can get to the proper 90 days no PM and not fuck up with chaser effect after sex )) Keep going guys and try not to panic over that corona virus stuff wherever you are!

 

Yeah, the panic is slowly ramping up everywhere, it seems. Let’s just be careful and not stress out too much over it.

 

Day 6

 

Day 15 complete.
Day 16 nearing completion.